out with it

wrote this last month...

How can you know someone loves you and yet not feel it?
Does love have to be a regular feeling?
Is it true what they say that if it's fleeting it's not love?
Damn! I'm in my longest relationship and I'm shit scared.
It seems along with the years, the combustion of passion and mind blowing feeling of deep emotion and physical attraction is slowly being exhumed.
I hate this.
It's like watching a movie unfold before your eyes, only thing is, it's your life you see scene after scene as tragedy is about to set in.
I've intentionally avoided writing about this or really thinking about it bec by doing so, I'm recognizing the validity and existence of the problem. Our problem.
I don't feel loved. At times.
She's not that romantic anymore, nor adventurous.
She's settled.
Dammit, that's supposed to sound good right?
But it doesn't feel good I tell you.
Being settled means you stop trying.
It's tantamount to complacency.
Even laziness!
Am I just being demanding?
I want the world. Her heart and soul and guts and blood and all the dark and carnal desires or thoughts she has.
I sure hell deserve that.
I don’t want us to be polite.
I want us to be inlove. Fighting, arguing about the most mundane of things, then kiss and make wild love make up after. laughing about our silliness and idiosyncrasies. dreaming about the things we very hope for, however unrealistic they are.
I don't want us going to the motion of being a couple equating to monotony and passiveness.
Siguro kulang lang ako sa s-x.
I gotta pee.

a month after, a pee, and some uhmph, it's a whole different story.


Anonymous said...

pagdating sa dulo ng iyong isinulat, natawa ako bigla... :)

Anonymous said...


firewomyn said...

ako din natatawa sa sarili ko :D
thanks for dropping by.
haven't posted in a loong while. so i thought no one visits my blog anymore :D

Anonymous said...

Lamo paulit ulit ko sinasab na kulang ka lang sa SEX, wag mo na kasi itago yung letter E sa S-E-X pati ba naman dun magpipigil ka??Gosh abelgosh naman. At sana dalasan mo ang pag post sa blog mo para hindi yung naiipon ang libog este ang litanya ng puso mo. O sya, naway makarami ka sa darating na mga araw lalo sa araw ng pasko at bagong taon. Dapat big OC ha, Orgasmic Celebration. Tagay na!


Anonymous said...

your alive!!!!
damn i miss your blogs...

joy-joy said...

why cant u spell sex on your blog? hehehe. nice one.