12.19.2005

flower (dis)arranging 101



okay, i finally had the chance to give flower arranging a shot :D
my family went to cavite to visit my sister who gave birth dec5.
i had a quick stop at dangwa to buy flowers.
i just wanted to buy vibrant flowers in yellows and oranges.
but mahirap makapili ng ibang type of flowers kasi limited choices dun,
so i went for the classic type, roses :)
dahil en route to cavite lang, nagdrop-by ako sa dangwa, while the cab is waiting with my family inside, super madali ako sa paghahanap,

*commercial muna*
habang reckless na tumatawid, a guy joined me and muttered,
"mag-iingat ka sa pagtawid, sayang ka."
dahil ako'y natural na masungit, i just gave him the 'look' and dedma na.
then habang namimili na ko flowers, nakabuntot pa rin sha!
he's askin me if i wana join pinoy big brother show.

dunno if u've heard of it (those not in pinas),
pero reality show sha where people live in the same house,
with cameras all over. sobrang popular nya dito (import from holland).

shempre, dedma pa rin ako sa guy.
then he said, cameraman daw sha sa channel 2.
and that was the last straw! ako'y kapuso! makachannel7 :D
so i finally told him, "hindi po," at tuluyan na kong nagwalkathon.
*end of commercial*


so nakabili ako ng tig-150 pesos na 1 dozen flowers (yellow, and orange respectively).

pagdating sa cavite, nanghingi agad ako ng vase sa sister ko,
at shempre, ang swerte ko talaga, kakabasag lang ng maid nya ung vase nila.
so , nanghiram na lang ako ng pitsel.
ayun, mega-gupit, at hugas.
habang ang familia ay nagkakainan at tinatawanan lang ako.
siguro naweirdohan. kasi ndi naman talaga ako mahilig noon sa bulaklak, much more mag-arrange!
shempre, ang lowlah nyo, ndi nagpa-apekto at talagang kinarir ang paga-arrange.
kumbaga, pride na lang ito.
pinagtatawanan na nga ako, tapos pag pangit pa kinalabasan,
e baka humagalpak pa sila ng tawa at maging family joke na ko till new year.
oo, pride na ito! :D


so here's firewomyn's flower arranging 101

1. ndi pala madali ang flower arranging!
in da first place, kaya ako naengganyo, kasi una, mahal ang magpa-arrange and feeling ko, madali lang sha gawin!
shempre, mali ako! :D

2. dangwa is not dat mura
kaya ako dun nagpumilit bumili, kahit far flung, kasi tingin ko mura.
kasi mukhang poor ang place, so siguro naman cheap ang tinda.
pero, sa halagang P150 per dozen, mas mahal sha ng P30 sa flowerdepot.com sa makati.
dun nakaref pa ang flowers. yun nga lang, tiis ng konti kasi masusungit ang tao dun :D

3. may daya sa dangwa.
kasi ung nakaplastic na bulaklak na akala mo ndi pa namumukadkad,
e dinaan lang pala sa higpit ng tali,
para magmukhang bud pa lang.
pero pagtanggal mo ng balot,
mejo full bloom na at nagpipeel off na ibang petals.

4. at dahil nakatali, nde na naiinspect ang leaves.
in short, ang poor ng leaves ng nakuha ko.
mejo may spots, sign of unhealthy growth.
baka kinapos ng vitamis or sunlight :D lol!
so better go for open flowers na pde mo talaga
inspectionin na parang specimen under a microscope.

5. roses are sweet, pero matinik sha ate!
as in masakit. so dapat nakagloves.
super dami kong natrim off na leaves ng flowers.
at super gupit din ako ng thorns.
madami din yun ha.

6. dapat marunong ka ng kaunting geometry.
kasi mejo may mga angles, and symmetry chuvanes,
to achieve the so-called style.
so pag kina-cut na, dapat navisualize mo na sa isip mo,
para pag cut mo ng stems, considered na yung height pati leaves.

7. perception is not mathematical
kung akala mo ang dami na tingnan ng dalawang dosena
(kasi nga nung bata tayo, masaya na tayo sa 3roses),
hindi po.
kasi after ko sha gawin, nakontian ako sa 2 dozens, ndi kasi siksik.
at doon ko narealize ang importance ng "fillers".
ung mga kung anik-anik na dahon at nagliliitang bulaklak na walang bango.
*pasensha na at greenhorn, so ndi ko pa alam names ng mga iyon*

8. at the end of it all, rewarding ang flower arranging.
sa una, oo, mejo mapapangitan ka sa gawa mo, kasi ganun naramdaman ko.
pero dahil ito ay iyong creation, masarap na sha titigan,
para bang slowly falling inlove *kilig!*
kasi naturally magaganda naman ang flowers.

9. ang pinakamasarap gawin after flower arranging?
magpicture taking! wehehe. posterity.
o di ba, 2-in-1 hobby, flower arranging & photography :)






11.25.2005

Love is a Language



11.23.05
By L. A. Vess

"Love is a verb," my partner is fond of saying. It is a lovely thing to hear, but exactly does “love is a verb” actually mean? When my partner says it, she means that love is not a static thing; it changes, grows, evolves and require constant action to keep it alive. But what if love is something even more than a verb, perhaps it is a language in which the verb 'love' is just a punctuation, an exclamation point?

Out of curiosity - and on a philosophical bent - I decided to explore.

Dictionary.com was my first hit in the wonderful wild world of the Internet. These are the first three (and relevant to this discussion) definitions provided for 'love'.
"love" - noun

1. A deep, tender, ineffable feeling of affection and solicitude toward a person, such as that arising from kinship, recognition of attractive qualities, or a sense of underlying oneness.

2. A feeling of intense desire and attraction toward a person with whom one is disposed to make a pair; the emotion of sex and romance.

3. Sexual passion. Sexual intercourse. A love affair.

Love as a noun is so all-encompassing
. Reading this, you can only think that too much responsibility has been given to this one little four-letter word. No wonder so many people have a hard time recognizing the emotion, or believing in it or explaining it. The English language has limited a wealth of human emotion to expression in just one tiny word. You can hardly expect anyone to be able to adequately use this noun as anything more than a simplified and generalized description of a concept too vast to be truly explained by anything so small.

"love" – verb

The definitions are generally the same - except here 'love' is used toward a person or a thing rather than as a description. Hence the verb form.

Basically, "To experience deep affection or intense desire for another." On the surface, that sounds pretty good. Of course, then you have to really sit back and think how many times you say "I love soccer" or "I love beer" or "I love that I finally fixed the faucet that was dripping and driving me nuts."

How can we justify using the same word to express how we feel about beer to express an intense and powerful connection to another human being? I think we have come to far from the origins of this word.

In ancient mythology, love was a being - a God or Goddess, Eros or Venus (among a multitude of others). When the ancients spoke of 'love', I am highly doubting they used their version of the word to describe how much they enjoyed having two cows instead of just one. No, love was 'divine' and to be in love; to love or be loved - was to be touched by the divine. Not in current times - not when 'love' is used as a word to describe a lack of points in a tennis game.

Even worse, the divinity of the word 'love' has been degraded into a base usage to define simple physical acts that often have nothing to do with actual 'love'. Take WordNet's synonym list: [syn: make out, make love, sleep with, get laid, have sex, know, do it, be intimate, have intercourse, have it away, have it off, screw, fuck, jazz, eff, hump, lie with, bed, have a go at it, bang, get it on, bonk]

Now, that just makes me feel dirty to even think the word.

A friend of mine who was very bitter over a 'love' affair said one of the most amazingly contradictory phrases that really gets my point across. She said, "God, I love to hate her!" - referring to her ex-girlfriend. Several months later she pointed out a site to me, an Acronym Finder, that had created what to her was the perfect acronym for LOVE. Loss Of Valuable Energy.

We are so jaded about 'love'. With all this, is it any wonder?

So are we to give up on the term completely? Try to find some other word to express a powerful emotion that seems so difficult to tack down? Maybe go back to Greek forms or try out synonyms from native languages? Or should we just give in and accept that the word has lost all real meaning and hope that those we 'love' will understand what we are trying to say when we use it?

Love is a verb.

I have decided to choose to embrace it as such. However, not as its traditional 'verb' definition. Yes, my definition includes all of those things Mr. Webster (or Dictionary.com) says. Mine is more, however. My definition is to let the word 'love' be undefined. I refuse to impose restrictions on it or burden it with more than those little four letters can handle. I leave it up to interpretation - mine and those I give that word to. When I say 'I love you' - it is a verb, and a noun - and an exclamation point. It is just one tiny tip of an iceberg of emotion that cannot be expressed by mere words. It is only one simple word in a language that goes by the same name.

Love is a language.

Of touch, of breath, of sound and of silence. Love is a language of kisses and long, slow looks that last for hours. It is a multitude of meanings expressed in moments of unreality and reality - finishing each others' sentences and being unable to speak. Love is in laughter and in quiet tears that can't be helped when your lover is flying away for the first time. Love is all of this and all of us; and so much more - it has no limits and no firm rules or definitions. Love just is.

11.22.2005

kwentuhan over cocktails



conversation among my womyn friends who doesn't know anythin bt my sexuality.

highly successful filipina careerwomyn:
it is so hard to find good men in the phils, i may end up being dyke soon!

well-travelled american IT professional:

(after staying for almost a yr in the phils to work)

if i stay longer in the phils, i think i'm gonna 'switch'.
there's just no good filipino men here. even the americans who go here only go here for the sex tourism.

highly successful filipina careerwomyn:

that's so true.
whenever i'm in the US, i meet so nice men (both pinoy and american).
they're just lovely. baffles me really.

proud-but-not-so-out firewomyn:

hahaha. really?
*that's all i did in the segment of that conversation:
laugh and act surprised*


hmm... if i had been out, conversation would have been like this:
:

highly successful filipina careerwomyn:
it is so hard to find good men in the phils, i may end up being dyke soon!

proud-and-out firewomyn:
oh darling! you wouldn't pass up as one! probably femme ;)

well-travelled american IT professional:
(after staying for almost a yr in the phils to work)

if i stay longer in the phils, i think i'm gonna 'switch'.
there's just no good filipino men here. even the americans who go here only go here for the sex tourism.

proud-and-out firewomyn:
well, it is not as if you can just switch to it for lack of choices.
but then you're very adventurous, so you might have fun with it.
i know i am! :)

highly successful filipina careerwomyn:
that's so true.
whenever i'm in the US, i meet so nice men (both pinoy and american).
they're just lovely. baffles me really.

proud-and-out firewomyn:
you tell me abt it! i dunno with pinoys here.
is it too much tropical heat that got into their heads or lack of iodized salt when they were young. i'm just so blessed 'cause i meet loads of interesting pinays. too much that couplehood is not the way to go here ;) wehehe.

all:
roarin laughter!

proud-and-out firewomyn:
grrls, seriously, if ur up for the switch thing, i can hook you up with some of my friends :)
*wink wink*


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swell! ohwell, there goes vodka, swimmin in my head.

10.25.2005

reconnecting

I miss my friends.
They've vanished same time my o2 mini's contacts got reset.
How does one reconnect?
After not hearing or seeing someone whom you've been close to before, how do you re-close to them?
Starting is always the biggest step.

It can be as awkward as, hey, how have you been doing (after i just forgot about you bec i got too busy)? Then there's a pregnant pause at the other end of the line. And you both stumble and fumble with the words.

Or it can be as honest as, i missed you. I got caught in this ungrateful thing called work, and i have not been there for you. I'm sorry (best if coupled with a hug, no tears pls, overkill!), coffee? :)

You can also try being brutally honest. But expect to be punched and kicked in the process.
Hi! (chirpy sound) You know what, i suddenly found myself with some free time (with no one to go out with) Would you believe that?! (nervous laugh). Wanna hang out? movie or something? (if you're desperate) My treat! :)


***just did this during the last 15min of my lunch break. So will hopefully continue this on my next free whatever. ***

9.09.2005

past posts

i temporarily lost my mind for a month.
a lot of thoughts racing in my head, some luckily got recorded in my O2,
others were as fleeting as rainbows, so those bunch probably went to nowhereland. bleh!
while amazingly some tough thoughts managed to survive through my troubled brain cells' chasms. atleast bits and pieces of 'em. i hope they still make sense :D

ROCO'S FUNERAL
yep, i attended this one. i've been meaning to go see him the moment i heard of the news. then one sunday, all dressed up to meet a friend for some 'umaatikabong tsikahan and landian', my mom out of nowhere said, are you attending roco's funeral? (truly unexpected. she does this once in a while, surprising me beyond my wits that just makes me pause and utter inside, geez! really haven't figured her out after all these yrs living w/ her). dang! i totally forgot! :( it was his last day in manila then he'll be moved to bicol. since i'm already wearing black racerback sando and black sneakers w/ cutoff jeans and long beaded necklace -- nah, this will do :)

the church was full of mourners, eulogies were being read.
the night was heartwarming despite the evening chill from typhoon gorio.
saw familiar faces from media, politics, UP, film. i must tell you that i don't go to churches (last time was when gf tagged me along), much more funerals i don't even attend relatives'!). but this one, i surprised myself for even going.

ok, what did i learn attending that funeral?
for one, conrado de quiros of phil daily inquirer is a good writer indeed but a poor speaker. atleast we got a sneak of his article the next day :D

a great eulogy read was that of his campaign manager, yoly ong. twas witty! :)
if she had been atleast 5yrs younger i'd probably go after her :D hehehe.

southborder was there for the music. though didn't hear them sing.

roco is my president, my townmate, out of clan's geographic roots. i believed in him and his vision. looking at him inside the casket. he looks so fatherly :) i think i'd have no issue hugging him then. so i did the next best thing, i hugged his wife :) and thanked her for his hubby who made me believe and hope :) -august 9, 2005.


... TO BE CONTINUED ...

8.07.2005

gusto kong yumaman!



nakakapagod nang maging mahirap. gusto ko nang yumaman. ang mga pangarap ko (na naglalaro sa isip ko) ay parang abot-kaay pero napakahirap makamit.

last year pa ko naglalaway sa portable dvd player. sa july 11 edition ng newsweek, on 'The TipSheet' section, they featured these players. 4/5 stars ang Govideo DP8240 ng CompUSA.com, pegged at $250. pde na! :)
sa sm, may appliances exhibit, shempre, parang nananadya talaga, may mga portable dvd players uli. pero puro AudioVox ang brand. 3 stars lang sha sa newsweek at tumataginting na $450 lang naman sha sa Target.com! olats!

my next burning desire is to own a laptop. may work, entertainment, social and image enhancement value sha! kung pde pa sana itong magdispense ng milo drink, self-contained na sha. panalo! :) pde ko nang i-isolate ang sarili ko at mabubuhay na ko.. wehehe :)

my gf recently sent me an email abt think pad loans from her barkada's company. tulo laway na naman ako. at dahil barkada to ng gf kong iniirog, nde dapat ako pumalpak sa paghulog. merong 6mos, 1yr, 2yrs to pay. pano if by some unfortunate event (na sana wag naman mangyari po pls!) ay nde na kme nun ng gf ko, pano na ang hulugan system?! dyahe! hmm... too risky, i won't bite this one.

pano ba nagsimula ang obsession ko sa laptop at sa kung anu-anong gadgets? ok, aamininin ko na, nagsimula ito sa inggit.

inggetera ako sa personal. hehehe :) ganyan talaga pag lumaking deprived, namamagnify ng societal bandwagon & trends (within the social circle you belong to) ang kakulangan sa buhay ko. na sa tulong ng edukasyong mulat, nagagatungan pa ng isang mabigat na tanong, 'saan ba nagkamali, at bakit kme financially challenged?' *ok, ok, 2 tanong yun.*

for the longest time, sinisisi ko ang magulang ko kung bakit kme mahirap, at siguro, sinisisi rin nila ang magulang nila. hayy... one generation of vicious cycle.

medyo may kaya sa lipunan ang pamilya ng nanay ko sa probinsya. mataas ang ranggo ng lolo ko sa militar. panahon ng giyera sa hapon, naambush ang tropa ng lolo ko. nabiyuda ang lola ko na may 3 babaeng anak. lumuwas ng maynila (sanggol pa lang ang nanay ko noon) para sumugal sa kapalaran at layasan ang marahas na alaala.

astig naman si lola, kasi nakaya nyang buhayin sila nanay. take note, iba ang 'buhayin' sa 'quality living'. i can't blame lola, panahon ng digmaan, manatiling humihinga pa lang ay pang-araw-araw na pakikipaglaban na.

ano ang nangyari sa 3 nyang anak?

nakakuha ng govt scholarship ang panganay (benepisyo mula sa pagiging anak ng militar na napatay on duty) at nagtapos ng commerce (education and commerce ang pangkaraniwang kurso noon, ngayon nursing, at nursing), nakapag-asawa ng medyo may uak at may itsura, though not necessarily mayaman. bagay naman sila, kasi si tita A ay kamukha ni susan roces (sana nag-artista na lang sya noon, patok pa sha!)

si tita B ay ndi nakapagtapos ng kolehiyo dahil umibig ng maaga at nakapag-asawa ng isang makisig at mayamang binata.

at ang nanay ko? bunsong anak, marikit na dalaga, nagtrabaho para makapagcollege, secretarial ang kurso. masyadong nalibang sa pagtatrabaho, at dahil kumikita na ng pera, huminto sa ikalawang taon nya. umibig sa binatang nagtapos ng elementary lamang, mahirap pero masipag, kamukha ng idolo nyang si victor wood at magaling magpatawa. at dahil masipag pareho, nagkaanak ng 6!

kasi palpak ang computation nila sa rhythm method. takot sa pills kasi bawal daw sabi ng simbahan, at ayaw magpa-ligate kasi may side effect daw. (hay... andaming excuses! lol!)

masipag at masikap ang mga magulang ko, pero sa opinyon ko, you'll need more than sipag to raise 6 kids! sa ganyang aspeto angat ang nanay ko. maabilidad sha. napromote na manager sa isang sikat na cosmetic company noon (opo, avon lady ang butihin kong nanay). ang tatay kong masipag, sa gitna ng tagumpay ng nanay ko ay nalulong sa kulto. (tama ang nabasa nyo, kulto, pero nde naman satanic cult, kundi, 'Ako'). sila ang nagpredict na magwawakas na ang mundo noong 80's. weird no?! (madami pang mas weird na nangyari, pero saka ko na kwento).

for the love of cult, iniwan nya ang pamilya nya. dahil nde naman nag-end of the world, nagmukmok sha sa isang kubo sa tagaytay. sa tulong ng tawas at seremonyas (pinakuluan ni nanay sa tubig ang huling damit na pinaghubaran ni tatay), nagbalik ang tatay. pero ofcourse, he's never the same again. (saka na ang madramang kwento tungkol dito, nde ko pa feel mag-emote).

dahil ok naman work ni nanay, naging complacent si tatay at nde na nagtrabaho. in short, naging tamad. si nanay ay eventually minalas at niloko ng ilang customers nya, dahilan para sha mabankrupt at makasuhan.

sa gitna ng magulong panahong ito (my own little war), masasabi ko namang swerte ako.

biniyayaan ako ni lord ng kaunting utak at feisty spirit. scholar from elem to college. nagtrabaho sa IT from the start at progressive naman ang career path. kung ano naman nangyari sa mga kapatid ko, iba pang kwento yun.

as i wrote this and reflect my family's history, these struck me:

a. nde enough na masipag ka or may utak ka or mayaman pamilya mo para magsuceed/yumaman.

b. nde rin excuse na you came from a financially struggling family not to succeed or make it big.

c. and nde masama ang mainggit. and maghangad.

i think ang magandang formula to succeed is:

utak + sipag + (motivation + goal) + swerte

utak, kasi there are many pathways to the big S, but you must strategize for the best way to achieve it. the S3 project; strategize da solution to succes.

sipag, kasi one way or the other, you have to sweat it out. energy or idea is useless until it it put into action. sa physics ko natutunan to. :)

motivation. napanood ko na to sa isang tv commercial, 'what drives you?'. pag naidentify mo na ang strongest motivation mo to a certtain goal, this will jumpstart and propel the sipag to keep on moving. sipag - (motivation + goal) is wasted effort because it is aimless.

swerte to me is inviting good karma or positive energy into your life.
i don't see swerte as something passive and you leave up for the gods to bestow on mortals. swerte is opening your life (heart, eyes, pores, mind, soul) to the goodness of life itself. swerte is not the type w/c is through the luck charmers (like a toad w/ a coin in its mouth, a figurine cat waving its paw, etc.), but more on willing the things to happen positively, through reinforcement. goodness begets goodness. as simple as smiling often, being thankful and positive thinking, i think those are sure swerte-drawer. :)

WARNING: formula not yet tested on animals, much more on humans!

but i'll be my own guinea pig on this one. afterall it's my life ;)

7.16.2005

on utol, tropa & kwentong bebot

*title pa lang tunog pangkanto na ah! hehe. tagay nga ng gin jan! :D*

*patalastas muna*
isang maligayang bati sa utol kong tinamaan ng magaling!
*shempre mana ko dun! ;) *

kampay para sa babaeng masarap!
masara magluto
masarap magmahal
masarap kausap
masarap sumbungan
at sabi nya, masarap din tikman! bwehehe.

***************************
ok, back to original programming...

nde madami ang kaibigan ko.
nde dahil suplada ako ha (mejo maangas lng ang dating).
nde ko rin alam. basta nde ako chikadora lalo kung nde interestng kausap. and i can't fake attention (unless work related).
ang alam ko, pag nde kita gusto, nde ko kayang magbait-baitan or magpatweetums.
so pag naging magkaibigan tayo, totoo yun.
malalim. walang iwanan, unless binadtrip mo ko :D

mas madami pa kong barkadang lalaki (straight) kesa sa babae.
kahit nga may mga asawa na sila e. pro click pa rin kme. ung iba nga asa kung saang lulpalop na ng mundo. nung pinagtapat ko sa kanila na ako'y naggi-gf, nagulat sila,
pero nde nila ito kinwestyon (nde dahil parang lalaki ang trato nila sa kin pero dahil consistent lng daw un sa pagiging liberated ko on certain things.
waaaah! miss ko na barkada ko! :( sniff! sniff!
pag may pagkakataon, like asa pinas sila or asa manila or online sila, umaatikabong catching up ito. merong isang beses, na sa airport na lang kme nagkita, kasi kakabalik ko lang galing davao, habang sha naman ay pabalik naman sa malaysia.
ung isa naman, lumuwas manila from la union, then ako kakadating ko lang mla from subic. ganung tipo ang tropa ko.

merong isang insidente dati na kasama ko tropa ko, and kasama isang babaeng kakilala from college na tingin ko kinakarir ung isa kong barkada (kaso in da end ako ang niligawan). sbi nya, bat ko daw ba binabarkada mga lalaki, pano daw kme magkakadevelopan *sumthin to that effect*
pagkarining ko nun, nde ko alam kung babambuhin ko pagmumukha nyang nde kagandahan or pagtatawanan ko sha sabay duduraan. pare! utak uod! kainis! *parang nde hinubog sa UP, darn!*
so un pala ang goal nya when befriending guys?! para karirin?
siguro kaya nde ako tsika sa maraming babae, kc nde ko sila masakyan.
ung kaartehan (nung iba), ung tweetums attitude at superficial mentality.
naku! andaming ganyang nagkalat sa makati! ang sarap banlawan ng tubig na may clorox para maliwanagan. infairness, madami din namang ok at astig, kaso mas madami ang badtrip.

masakit na mata ko sa antok, i leave you all with a kickass song from a kickass girl, gwen stefani




"Just A Girl"

Take this pink ribbon off my eyes
I'm exposed
And it's no big surprise
Don't you think I know
Exactly where I stand
This world is forcing me
To hold your hand
'Cause I'm just a girl, little 'ol me
Don't let me out of your sight
I'm just a girl, all pretty and petite
So don't let me have any rights

Oh...I've had it up to here!
The moment that I step outside
So many reasons
For me to run and hide
I can't do the little things I hold so dear
'Cause it's all those little things
That I fear

'Cause I'm just a girl I'd rather not be
'Cause they won't let me drive
Late at night I'm just a girl,
Guess I'm some kind of freak
'Cause they all sit and stare
With their eyes

I'm just a girl,
Take a good look at me
Just your typical prototype

Oh...I've had it up to here!
Oh...am I making myself clear?
I'm just a girl
I'm just a girl in the world...
That's all that you'll let me be!
I'm just a girl, living in captivity
Your rule of thumb
Makes me worry some

I'm just a girl, what's my destiny?
What I've succumbed to Is making me numb
I'm just a girl, my apologies
What I've become is so burdensome
I'm just a girl, lucky me
Twiddle-dum there's no comparison

Oh...I've had it up to!
Oh...I've had it up to!!
Oh...I've had it up to here!

7.12.2005

pasaway



may pasaway na rally.
kaya may pasaway na noypi.

kung ndi lang ako nakaputi,
sumampa rin ako ng alang paki.

dedma na kung mahuli.
e sa ako'y nagmamadali!

isa na lang ang masasabi.
pag bawal lalong sumisigi.

kasi makulit ang lahi!
pano, pinoy kasi!

:p

7.01.2005

shot glass

shot glass

3 glasses of water for 2.

was having dinner w/ my gf.
ordered food and water.
i specifically said w/o ice.
then came 2 glasses w/ ice.
i retold my instructions.
got it right the second time.
food came ages after.
amused myself w/ this shot from my phone.

6.28.2005

buntis ka ba?



i have always been slim since as far back as i can remember.
but recently, with lack of exercise and all techie work (sitting and pounding on the keyboards, hours of meetings sitting down) and a stimulated appetite influenced by my gf, i've grown fats.

yes, fats, as in flabs, centered on the tummy.
actually, i don't mind. my only concern is i tire easily. the farthest i walk (w/c can pass up as workout to me) is from one end of my ofc to the other.

ok, so i have some tummy flabs, no big deal to me. i've always wanted to be fuller in a way.
so while i'm celebrating my newfound fats, i didn't realize my mom's going berserk abt it!

monday:
mom: nagkakapuson ka na saka bilbil.
me: ainako! wala na kasi exercise.

tuesday:
mom: lumalaki yata tyan mo, saka puwet mo. hmmm ... baka buntis ka ha?
me: nyeh! lagi lang kasi ako nakaupo at nagcocomputer. sus!

wednesday:
mom: ang lakas mo na kumain ... tumatakaw ka ...
me: shempre, pagod e. pagkain na lang ang panlaban ko.

thursday:
mom: ang sikip na ng pantalon mo sau. baka may laman na yang tyan mo...
me: ma, kung gusto nyo magpacheckup tayo para matahimik na kau. pro kau magbayad ha, kasi kau naman tong nagdududa.

friday (at da mall):
sis: sabi ni mama, lumalaki daw tyan mo, baka buntis ka daw ... *hesitant, takot kasi sa kin to kasi mas matanda ako*
me: ainako, isa ka pa! masama ba tumaba? nakakainis naman sa bahay.

saturday:
*nagutom ako, kaya nagmidnight milo ako ska wheat bread.*

mom: gabi na, kakain ka pa. bakit anlakas mo na kumain?
me: *pissed* e kasi buntis ako. *nguya ng tinapay*
mom: sabi ko na nga ba! tapos ayaw mo pa aminin! *hysterics*
me: *wtf?!* nyeh! as in naniwala naman kayo?! sinabi ko lang yun kasi isang linggo nyo na kong sinasabihan tungkol sa buntis na yan. sabi nang nde, ayaw maniwala.
mom: araw-araw ba?
me: o cge, every other day.
*singit si sis*
sis: oo ma, lagi nyo na lang sya sinisita.
mom: *nde aamin shempre, biglang magkaka-amnesia* pAra tinatanong lang, masama na ba magtanong?
me: pero nde naman kayo naniniwala kahit ilang beses ko nang sinabi na nde. pero isang beses ko lang sinabi na oo, as a joke, naniwala naman agad kayo. what do you mean by that?
mom: wala. *tahimik na.*
me: *i rest my case, akyat na ng kwarto to text gf para mgsumbong*

... the next day, 4am...
my sister woke me up, mom was having hypertension attack. but the catch is, my mom specifically said to my sister that she wants me to be the one to bring her to the ER.

shempre, badtrip pa kaya ako nun, pero bilang butihing tomgrrl na anak, sinamahan ko sya. pro nde ako umiimik sa buong byahe.

timing naman sa ER, may nadead na lalaki so while i was waiting, mega atungal ang kanyang mga kaanak. hay sadness na creepy ng slight.

so after waiting for 2 hrs, da doc talked to me.

doc: i don't see anything wrong w/ your mom. ecg is normal, she seems ok, but her highblood pressure is still high. i think something is bothering her. she's havin' an anxiety attack.
me: ugh!

sheesh! neat huh? so how can i even argue with her abt anything? when i can always be defeated by her mom superiority and psychosomatic anxiety attacks?
if only circumstances were normal our conversation would simply be like:

monday:
mom: nagkakapuson ka na saka bilbil.
me: ainako! wala na kasi exercise.

tuesday:

mom: lumalaki yata tyan mo, saka puwet mo. hmmm ... baka buntis ka ha?
me: nyeh! pano naman ako mabubuntis ng gf ko? sus! kain na lang tayo. :D

6.15.2005

surprise! surprise!



my gf recently had her bday.
since i can't think of any gift to give her and she surprised me with a bouquet of flowers on my bday, i wanted to do the same, but not flowers.
**i don't know what it is with butches and flowers, they just don't mix! ;)

pressed for time, what i did is order yellow cab pizza to her ofc.
being a good gf as i am, i have no idea what floor she is in! i had to check the net then make phone calls abt it.

i collaborated with our admin people on how to go abt this, bec the plan is that they deliver the pizzas in my ofc first so i can pay for them, then they deliver it to her ofc.

i think it was pretty straight forward.
i went with my usual stuff. after hrs, i noticed that it's past 4pm already and their ofc ends 5pm! *panic mode!* whatever happened to the pizza?!

i called our admin officer abt it and she forgot abt it. we called yellow cab, and guess what -- they delivered it already!
wherethehell did they send it to, bec i sure hell didn't receive nor pay for anything yet!

as if on cue, my gf sent me a text msg, asking for the surname of our admin officer.
*you guessed it right!*
to my horror, it was delivered straight to their ofc!

omg! i'm having a heart attack!

i need not ask, she paid for the pizza i was to surprise her with!
i didn't have the guts to reply to her text.
instead, i called yellow cab and barked at them for their major screw up!
**i have to blame somebody, anybody! to make me feel less of a fool**
can't people follow simple instructions?!
i was furious! and soo embarrassed at the same time.
there's too many emotions in me but my voice is just one high pitch althroughout.
as a consolation, they sent me a free pizza.
syet! after naming magsigawan?! feeling ko may lason sya, so sa team ko sya pinakain. :D
**as of this writing, buhay pa naman sila.**

anyway, pagod na ko. sa galit and frustrations. so to cut the awful story short,
me and my gf had a field day laughing at my mistake :
and i of course can't help but be uber pissed abt the whole thing.
in between being pikon and laughing, I can't help but think how nuts i am with this gf of mine ;)

what's good abt messing up is you can make it up next time :
i personally like any phrase coined with "make".
kiss and make up, make do, make magic, and shempre, make love :p
ito ang tunay na hapi na, birthday pa! solbs! ;)

6.03.2005

3 poems for da womyn in my mind

Haze
by Fran Ng (2003)

we collide on purpose
not our own
leaping
into orange.

then i am red
and you are yellow
circling
a solitary fever.

we make
rings of fire
in dim spaces
stroking time

where i am red
and you are yellow
and when we meet
we set ourselves on fire.


Hunger
by bino a. realuyo (2003)

this poem must be written now, on this hour,
this one sitting, the sudden rush of thought -- of you.

you again: my charcoal drawings in the air,
dance of limbs, not seen but smelled,

images forming from a verge of thought --
a scent of another sunday full of longing for food.

to eat breakfast, alone, and to know that i
have cooked for you once: eggs, pancakes, honey,

that i have eaten not only what i made but
also you; you, tasting better each time i swallowed.

your taste, a disappearing act, the fear of knowing
that you will be yesterday's dish, a name in a book

of the forgotten, the silent partner that ate off my plate,
the one who watched me cook, naked in hunger.


live poem
by anna bernaldo (2003)

"love is always a choice," my mother always says,
but this time her spatula did not point
pragmatically in my direction.
it stirred silence on the boiling broth,
ripples matching the excited rhythm
of the tv sports abchor's voice
in a basketball game my father is watching.

now that i'm older, i'm forced to reconsider
you and my fixation on the addams couple
as our role models forever.
one always hungry for the other.

i never listened to my mother,
but everyday i see her.
and i'm older and love must be domestic,
responsible, sensible as a haircut in summer.

is it possible for us to make something more
out of what we are about to have?
of course, you do not know.
even i do not know.
why did i even begin asking questions?
i just wanted to write you a love poem
but i can only live one for you.

5.31.2005

whatta predicament!

kerida-wannabe: firewomyn ... gusto talaga kita .. kahit kabit lang payag ako ...
firewomyn: seryoso ka?
kerida-wannabe: seryoso.
firewomyn: you deserve more.
kerida-wannabe: kaya nga, i deserve you.
firewomyn: what do you mean?
kerida-wannabe: sinabi ko na sayo di ba? i love you ... i just want to love you ... kahit yun na lang.
firewomyn: may gf na ko. i love her. i'm committed to her. i don't want a kerida. i don't want you to be a kerida. i care for you. but i can't give you what you want or need.
kerida-wannabe: i never asked naman on what i want or need di ba?
firewomyn: im gonna hurt you again..
kerida-wannabe: you won't hurt me.. this is my choice.
kerida-wannabe: i want you to stay ... mahal kita e.
firewomyn: stay as what?
kerida-wannabe: the special friendship, special feeling, basta yun.
firewomyn: ok. but accept the fact that i love my gf so much and i'm happy with her. and you are a special friend to me :)
kerida-wannabe: you love her so much?
firewomyn: yes.
kerida-wannabe: pasensha ka na makulit ako. ang kabaliwan ko umaandar na naman :) i'm happy for you. i'm happy that you're inlove with your gf ... she's really damn lucky to have you ...
firewomyn: thanks.
kerida-wannabe: i really want you to be my girl, pero nde na ata talaga pwede :(
firewomyn: friends?
kerida-wannabe: friendly love? mahirap ata yun. nurtured kasi emotions ko for you... i'm happy abt it.
firewomyn: thanks for the love. i consider it a gift :)
kerida-wannabe: oo, gift sha... wala na sanang bawian ng regalo. hehehe.. :)
firewomyn: why me?
kerida-wannabe: i can't find the reason why i feel this way about you ... and as i look for that reason, i find myself back to you ... i'm inlove with you..

**i feel humbled to be showered with such emotional depth and selflessness. i can't match that. but she will definitely be on queue if ever (a big IF) i end up being single again! she's so darn sweet and syrupy. i feel like butter melting on a hot toast. but since 'naipalaman' na ko sa ibang tinapay (wehehe), nde na pde. hay buhay... may 2 pairs nga ng lips e, sna ang puso dinalawa na din. lech! :p**

5.26.2005

raining womyn

rainy season is bringing me loads of stuff to think about (read: temptations).

**context: we used to have this 'thing' going on between us, but then i got myself a gf, so the 'thing' stopped.

we've been good friends since then, minus the mush & uhh.. sexual undertones.

i thought all the boundaries are clear. then this:

context: we're gona go to a gimik, im gona pick her up, then meet our other frends.

...
gf-wannabe: would you go out with me?
firewomyn: err, susunduin na nga kita e.
gf-wannabe: that's not what i mean.
firewomyn: *scratches head* huh? then what do you mean?
gf-wannabe: would you make love to me?
firewomyn: *gulp! throws cold water on my face*
firewomyn: No.
gf-wannabe:: ok, forget i asked.
...

sheesh! it feels like my summer is just starting.
there's so much heat around me. and i feel the fire.
if i were only single i would have agreed or i might have even initiated! lol! :)
sigh. trying times.

5.23.2005

da return of da first gf!

remember da 1st gf?
do you ever forget da first gf?
twas 2yrs ago since we fell (in and out of love).
prior to my gf now, sha ang pinakamahal ko sa lahat.
sa kanya rin ako dinugo sa sama ng loob.
actually, 1 yr after the terrible breakup e para na naman shang singaw na nagparamdam.
mejo emosyunal kme, so nagkaiyakan.
and i must admit nun ko lng sha naintindihan.
out of nowhere she tells you that she loves you still.
confusing times, kasi asa bakasyon nun ang gf ko.

and eto na naman sha.
telling me iloveyous again, and
asking me these q's:

1stgf: hey
1stgf: love you love you
firewomyn: ung love you ba na yan, frendly love lng
1stgf: bsta ilove you
1stgf: nun pa man love na kita
firewomyn: ok, frendly love. salamat po :)
1stgf: mahal na mhal mo na ba ang gf mo?
firewomyn: yes
1stgf: ready ka na sa tanong ko
firewomyn: ?
firewomyn: quiz contest b to?
firewomyn: :D
1stgf: haha
1stgf: halimbawa umuwi ako, tpos ala ka namang partner, consider mo kaya ako
firewomyn: tapos single k din?
1stgf: syempre and as in dyan na talga ako
firewomyn: for good?
1stgf: uhuh
1stgf: my mom wants me back
1stgf: gusto nya dyan na ko at ala daw mag-aalaga sa knya
firewomyn: so isa kang caregiver
1stgf: pinag-iisipan ko. kesa kung dito naman ako parang lang nngyayari skin. kuya ko gsto rin ako dyan
firewomyn: ang tanong -- gusto mo b dito?
1stgf: mahal ko ang mama ko
1stgf: mtagal ko nang gusto dyan
firewomyn: follow wer ur heart is
firewomyn: dats wer happiness is daw
1stgf: khit meron k na, gusto parin kitang mkita
1stgf: minsan naisip ko bulagain ka na lang sa trabaho mo
1stgf: gusto kong mlaman kung ano magiging reaction mo
1stgf: sapakin mo kaya ako
firewomyn: bat ko nmn sasapakin ang babaeng minahal ko ska nagpaiyak sa ken?
firewomyn: *laughs*
firewomyn: to answer ur Q kanina, yes. id consider it.
1stgf: ilalagay ko sa isip ko yan
firewomyn: sure
1stgf: 2 days ago binasa ko ilan sa mga usapan ntin sa net, yung emails mo at emails ko
firewomyn: wow!
firewomyn: almost 2yrs ago n un ah
1stgf: alam mo khit meron ka na hihingan pa rin kita na kahit sandaling oras lang pra mayakap at mkiss
firewomyn: pag-usapan natin pg andito ka na
1stgf: sana maabot kita
1stgf: sana kaya kong ilevel srili ko syo
firewomyn: 5'3 lng ako
firewomyn:: kayang kayang abutin!
1stgf: haha


**days after, she sent me a pic of her donned in bikinis. gulp! she looks hot! :p i think she's seducing me. heaven help me! :D *

5.13.2005

womyn in my mind



i'm so tired and sleepy that i want to spend the remaining coherent awake thoughts (before i faint from exhaustion) to pleasant ones. so here goes.

to the womyn in my mind.

sure, there's an ocean of women out there and it is soo easy to just have a taste and philander.
i'm a sucker for sexy, kick-ass, smart, sporty womyn who has an artist in them.

my reality check is just this: i think of what will happen if i get caught and if my gf finds out and if i can bear it if she leaves me bec i fucked up big time.
and it becomes crystal clear to me,
who is the only one who can make me leave the ofc early,
whom i won't replace for anybody else for some existential kicks or momentary itch,
whom i would be begging to win back if ever (with tears and kneeling to boot),
who i really want to hangout with in any kind of gimik,
who makes me feel loved and grounded,
who makes everything better for me,
who brings me food at the ofc everytime i stay late, and
who patiently waits (for hours!) for me from work just so we go home together and spend some quality time even for just an hr,
who is crazy for me and i'm also crazy with.

and then, i'm not confused anymore :)
and i know i'm right where i want to be,
in the arms of my wonderwomyn :)

good night! :)

5.11.2005

sleep of the tongue

enough of the professional angst!
after a long, long while, i had more than 6hrs sleep!

when i looked at myself in the mirror,
i think my skin rested well, they look relaxed :)
although my body's craving for a few more hours of deprived sleep!

when i checked my celphone, i had 7 unread messages!
most of which came from my bestfriend.
all forwarded messages!
bordering from the religious to the obscene. lol! :)
so unlikely of him.
he must miss his missable bestfriend already :D
he's been asking me for some lunch-cum-chikahan galore,
w/c i've been declining.
bec either im still at home catching up w/ sleep
or i have tons of urgent work to do (it's always urgent! dang!).

i think that is the role of bosses,
to give you loads of tasks, w/ unrealistic timelines/deadlines,
and to blame you for expectedly being delayed.
in short, bosses are here to make my life hell!

my mom has never adjusted to the advent of wonder bras.
everytime i wear one and she sees me, she always comments:
"parang lumaki ang boobs mo ..."

**i'm sure she's thinking of other sleazy reasons that involve men. give me a break!**

"ma, padding lang yan."

of course, she's not convinced.
mothers are mandated to doubt their children.
and they can smell lies 5 meters away.
geez! such enhanced sensory!
they shd hire moms in the fbi!

as a footnote (meaning last note. hehe.),
i was horrified to find out that my devil-in-disguise-pseudo boss
likes working with me a lot!
those were the pseudo boss' very words.
i cringed when i saw that line.
s/he's not bobo, so i dunno why the hell s/he said that to me (not verbally.
i think i won't be able to hide my disgust if it was ever face-to-face).
if that's an attempt to lure me to soften my stance,
beat it buster! in your rotten dreams!

5.10.2005

impyernong buhay to!

sobrang galit ko now,
nde ko makuhang magwala.
pero ngrerebolusyon na sa dibdib ko.
pde pala ung ganun.
too much anger it paralyzes you.

imagine this.
mother's day, ur asked to report to work for 9pm.
then natapos nyo na ung primary problem, pero nakahostage pa rin kau.
5am ka na umuwi.
then may mtg daw ng 1pm.
2hrs away ka lang nmn sa ofc.
so pagdating ng ofc,
moved ang mtg to 3pm.
ang mtg ngstart ng 4pm.
natapos ng ... brace urself... 9pm!
and to think nag-ot na ko sa ofc ng sabado ha.
then dahil bangag pa ko, inisip ko nang umuwi ng 10:30pm.
kasi nakapagstatus check na ko sa team ko.
at ang gf ko kaninang 6pm pa ko inaantay.
kc today is our first year since we met. *magkaibigan pa lang kme nun*
mejo monumental importance.
kaso, before pa ko makalabas ng pintuan, nasunog ang pintuan kya nde na ko makalabas.
sinunog ng dimonyo kong ewan.
sabi nya, nde pa daw pde umuwi kasi may gagawin pa daw.
sha nga daw nde pa uuwi.
*e ano naman pakialam ko sa buhay mo?!*
sha ay sa makati lng naman nakatira.
may personal driver.
at walang lovelife!
ainako!
palibhasa walang jowa,
kaya ung may mga natitirang social life, dinadamay!
so habang ngumunguya ako ng bubblegum at naninigas na panga ko sa pagpipigil,
nakatitig lang ako sa mukha nya
habang sa isip ko sinapak ko na sha.
naramdaman ko na lang nanigas ang dibdib ko.
at lumakas kamao ko.
npadasal na lang ako bago pa ko makapatay...

"god, pls don't give me strength.
because if you do, i might kill my pseudo-boss!"

5.06.2005

quote in the moment

"make-up sex is worth fighting for."

-the wedding date

5.04.2005

self-destruction

im intentionally not doing things right.
im in a rebellious mode.
i want to prove a point.
you can get angry all you want.
that makes us even.
bec im angry too.
and i will keep doing this until you get the point.

5.03.2005

labor day ex-perience

when do you know when your ex is already your friend?
i don't know.
all i know is that when i needed to obtain an elusive WindowsXP 64Bit installer,
ex was the one who rescued me.
after being bombarded with calls from the almighty bosses over the weekend,
and dispersing my team to do the hunt,
i suddenly remembered that ex once consulted me months ago abt the appropriate motherboard and processor for the WindowsXP 64Bit stuff.
Just one phone call and the search has ended.
The catch though is i have to pick it up from her home, in the suburbs.

Flashback: the first and last time i went to her house was leap year last year.
i made a surprise leap visit to her place to commemorate the feb29 event.


a year after, i still know how to go to her house.
we haven't seen each in a long while.
so there, seeing her that weekend afternoon, with the dusk wind blowing our hair and some fireworks on the sky, standing on the street.
same scent, same look. same thoughts. i missed her :)

my warrior womyn!


behold the encantadia princess warriors:

AMIHAN (cool!)



PIRENA (hot!)



ALENA (fluid!)



DANAYA (animalistic! - fave)



i like em all. i like her ^^ best :D

holiday

work sucks big time!
it's a goddamn holiday and we are required to work.
screw the double pay!
my gf's in an outing.
my bestfriend's still in bora.
my family's watching the premier episode of encantadia.
ayala is deserted.
watson's is closed.
whattafuck am i doin in this godforsaken dilapidated sorry-looking building called office?
grrrrr!!!!!

5.02.2005

Spread the L word

4.28.2005

lost and found



stuff i found out (abt myself) on losing and getting lost...

some things are meant to be lost.
try as you might to keep them,
if it's not yours to keep or own,
then it's bound to be gone.

i hate losing!!!

but i just have to move on and learn the lesson that nothing really is for keeps.
therefore there is no use being attached to things,
only to be shattered after.

damn! i hate losing!!!

come to think of it, those who get left behind also end up being lost :(

there is this sinking feeling.
to grasp on that which is no longer there.
familiarity is a killer.
it will force you to long for that which you lost even though your mind knows that it is gone. and it is futile.

familiarity truly breeds contempt (okay, i'm twisting the meaning, but i don't fuckin' care!)
i hate familiarity!

it is this same familiarity that is essential so as not to be lost.
**which i already stated can't be controlled**

if you're so used to something and you know it in and out, then the chance of getting lost is slim.

atleast that's what others say.
w/c i don't necessarily have to believe on.

but i realized :
a. there's no shortcut to the right path. oftentimes, you really have to get lost in order to find the right way.
a.1. the road to enlightenment is under construction.

b. and only when you lose something do you find out that you can live without them.
b.1.


my sob the stories:
1. the thing is, i lost my stylus (the second one) today :(
friday, i lost my first stylus, but found it also after a few hours. then saturday, i lost it again and didn't find it anymore. waaaah!
so i have a spare, but lost it after the 3rd day of use.

2. i'm furious that i got lost today by my dimwit cab driver who prolly did it intentionally to squeeze more money from me. he missed one turn which caused us to be sooo out of the way. you know how the one ways work in makati.

to the driver, i have 3 words for you:
go to hell!!!

4.20.2005

an exclusive party



i am organizing an exclusive party for a balikbayan friend.

so here's my guideline on this exclusive party:

1. strictly all girls, anything that is biologically male is prohibited. i guess even transexuals too.

2. when you say party, this means, booze, or anything that has the same effect. read: alcoholic drinks.
the rise of the amats is directly proportional to the rise of the libido.

3. smoking ofcourse is optional (be it pot or otherwise). this an added excuse to do crazier stuff ;)

4. danceable, sexy, sing-able contemporary music. this is the foreplay.

5. this can be a meet our friends' friends or meet my ex-turned friend or meet my gf's ex-turned friend-turned my gf now. the lez links are so intertwined they'd resemble the pubes.

6. you should have the right mix of the beautiful/desirable, the aggressive, the entertainer, the intellectuals, the dumb/the newbies and the oc's.

7. have a few games that will involve everyone, preferrably with skin touching, like spin the bottle/truth or kiss (the opposing womyn on each end of the bottle shd kiss), body shots or strip poker (ok, that didn't have touching, but then what's next w/ the watching is up to how game you are)

8. you can rent a room depending on the size of the group or reserve a table in a bar. the more privacy, the better.

9. i hope everybody dresses up for this party. it can be themed or not.

10. if you bring couples in exclusive parties, they will create a subset of exclusivity, meaning they're exclusive to each other only. korni!!! this creates imbalance somehow. so partners are not encouraged.

that's all i've thought of so far for this sat's parteh :)

any other ideas??

4.16.2005

words with no wisdom



i dunno where wisdom is, bec if i have any ounce of it, i would have left my company now!
but then miracle of all miracles, i'm still working my ass off for this company.
and im hating each day that im here. moreso everytime i need to meet with bleep! bleep!
my only consolation if you can call it that is seeing the enthusiastic people who still has this thing called 'hope' in them.

i didnt realize that my patience and tolerance can be stretched this far.
frighteningly amazing!

i miss my old self. when i don't give a damn, and i spit my mind to whoever at anytime.
when i'm challenged yet motivated.
nowadays, im just tired. challenged, sure. motivated, na-ah :c

in my twisted mind, i just wish that i get fired, to make things easy.
sigh. why is leaving never easy?
why is giving up so hard to do?
i've been mercilessly kicked on all sides, in and out.
and yet i remain.
that's the reality of my professional shit.
i remain.
no movement up, no progress. no change.
but a continuing decadence that will soon kill the life out of me :(

in my own little way, i try to fight this nega feeling.
how? i dress up! :D

during my tan days, i showed a lot of skin. backless, sleeveless.
less is the theme! ;)

now that my tan has faded (or should i say, molting season has ended), im soon returning to my old skin.
**that doesnt sound right. i just shed off skin, so how can it be 'old' skin? new skin? hehe. nangungulit lang :p*

old skin, old ways.
i went back to statement shirts, jeans and sandals/slippers.
but since i've been feeling crappy, i decided to do, operation: beautify! :D hehe.
i'm sporting the biker chick look, donned in my fab red biker jacket w/ tanktops underneath ;)
i also accessorize more now like colorful beads, black leather wristbands, native necklaces, the works.

my waves of curls has grown so long, halfway on my back. i just let them be.
my nails are in royal blue for a week now :) while my ankle has 3 braided anklets from my out of town trips.
and i wear 3 different scents :)

once in a while, i wanna surprise myself.
on a rainy day like last friday, i ate ice cream! it's just me going nuts i guess :)

ok, i've digressed again. for a moment there, i've forgotten how shitty i'm feeling :)

so why is leaving never easy? why is giving up so hard?
**words with no wisdon ahead**
because you just don't want to.
you say you do, you feel like doing it.
but what you're feeling is not enough for you to materialize them into action.
meaning, you're just full of blah! and too coward or lazy to do what u want.
**my old self reprimanding my now self**

that's my take on that. not only on leaving but to all the rest of the verb words you wanna do, but can't/won't.

4.09.2005

dissecting DARNA!!!

Dahil ang tagal kong nawala, here's a socially relevant entry na i hope makakapagpalimot sa inyo sa malungkot na sinapit ni pope :)

**ano ang relate ni pope & darna?? note the semblance in pope's and darna's costume, same color scheme, may meaning yun!! lol! (deranged talaga ako)**




okay, i don't think i've ever been interested with local tv than when angel locsin became darna.
but then, who wouldn't??



D is for drama!
look at that face! okay, and body too (as if it can be helped).
don't you just want to hug her and console her and love her and protect her from the harshness of life?



D is for divine!
she flies, saves people's lives, she has a pure heart underneath her costume, what more can assure her of heavenly status? a real angel, sigh...



D is for delicious!
i mean, just look at that sight ^ hmmm... yummeeh!
kanin na lang ang kulang, busog ka na!
parang ang sarap nya halikan sa... buong katawan!



D is for dreams, of darna and me...in da dark doing bleep! bleep! stuff ;)


**anecdote**

nakasabay ko na syang manood ng sine sa greenbelt, kahilera ko ng upuan.
pro nde ko maalala pinanood ko non, basta alam ko, nakaputing sexy outfit sha nun! wehehe.

nakita ko na rin sha ng malapitan sa mall (nung Click days pa nya). kasama nya alalay nya nun.

kapuso/n talaga ako! ;)

3.23.2005

more hapi times

excerpt of the weeks that was and the coming days:

DA WINE PARTEH!
i had my wine party with select friends.
no straights were allowed.
twas with two special womyn in my life (m gf was intentionally not there).
one was heavenly, the other juicy ;) beat that :D

twas with my closest friend, my discreet gay bestfriend.
he and his ex-bf did all the prep, what more can i say? but thank you!

we had 5wines: 4 red wines, 1 white wine.
2 of them were chosen because of the fancy bottle design, the two, for the taste. and the other one for no reason :D

we had cheeses and cold cuts, crackers and cakes.

twas a night of Ws: wine, womyn, winning, wanting and wit.

we had games, age-old charades (my team won), memory game (i failed twice), pinoy henyo contest (about showbiz, i suck at this!).

NORAH JONES
she simply is enchanting.
she's fun and sweet.
i sure hope she's not straight :D
i adore her.
firewomyn is starstruck.

Sunday -Saturday (Mar. 13-19)
NON-STOP WORK AND MISERY!

BEACHIN!!!!
Sunday, Mar. 20. Destination: SanJuan, Batangas.
Family outing.
Beach was great! :) Family-prepared feast was sumptuous! *buhay baboy*
Corals were breathtaking *imagine feeling that while you're underwater! wehehe! :) it is to die for! *
*will post pix pag sinipag na ko*

so im back with my tan after palawan :) ansaya!

MORE BEACHIN!!!
Thur-Sat, Mar. 24-26. Destination: Puerto Galera.
hike, swim and dive/snorkel.
dance, drink, rave, parteh!

Sunday, Mar. 27.
SPA and MASSAGE.

3.10.2005

hapi times

what makes birthdays happy?

it is spending the day with your loved ones and with those who love you too :)




we had dinner in a singaporean resto in gateway, Rasa.
my whole family was there, and their better halves and kids, plus of course my bestfriend.
it was a sight seeing the legacy of our family. almost makes the ties tangible.
the food was excellent, service was great and the ambiance so right.
im so happy :)




friday is for my friends! this is the time to commune!
for wine, womyn, whining and whathaveyous! ;)
friday is all about getting Wasted! *excited*




time with my gf is reserved for sat! :)
we'll start it with a norah jones concert then anything goes after ;)




and then sunday, is a time for rest and reflection.
to be grateful for an enriching year of life.

i thank god :)

3.09.2005

a reason to blog



ok, it's my birthday. i almost forgot.
geez!
nway. i have to treat my team for lunch! a must! i spend more time with my colleagues than with my family, so that makes them more than family! ugh!

amid the heartaches and mini triumphs we experienced, i love those guys. eck! good thing they're not reading this. we've never been in an emotional level. well, if you can call the heated arguments, the anger, the frustration with each other and the 'sermons' as emotional interactions, then me and my team's more like blood brothers then. hehehe.

literally and figuratively. we've been thru hell and back. spilled blood, sweat, guts and tears. and whatever juice left of our body.

we've given our all for this company we work for. heart and mind.
i think there's no greater love than that.

now i think im gonna cry. boo! hoo! lol!

*group hug!*

ok, im sounding sappy already.
hey, give me some slack!
i know it's out of character, but i have a valid excuse, it's my D DAY :p

2.26.2005

pensive in palawan

2.25.2005

i want to break free!

OFF TO PALAWAN :)

2.11.2005

forgive my father for he has sinned



my current relationship w/ my tatay is limited to monosyllabic responses (answerable by yes or no is best) to his inquiries and him asking for money during sweldo.

when i was a child, we speak in terms of his belt on my skin or his palm on my face.
and my replies are in black and blue, in bruises, in muted pain and of nurtured hatred.

u kinda get used to it to a pt that it no longer hurts, physically and emotionally.

bec of this, he stopped 'disciplining' us.

i dont know if it is lack of education or simply his lord mentality that makes him think that he is still the head of the family and shd be followed at all times despite the fact that he has long ago stopped assuming that role.

dig this. he didn't buy any appliance/stuff in the house. yet he controls the them all.
kainis di ba? you can't choose the shows to watch from the tv w/c you bought, bec sya ang nasusunod.
*feeling ko, pag tinago ko ang remote control, maghuhuramentado un or babasagin na lng ang tv para walang makinabang!*

psycho.

last night, i just found out that my father has a mistress who's pregnant right now and wants to live with her.
*w/c in truth is fine w/ me really, so long as he doesn't come back*

the catch though is that he wants us to financially support 'them'.

the mistress by the way is just in her early twenties (younger than me), and accdng to rumors, is mentally challenged.

but the real deal is this, my tatay is saying that it is not his, but since naaawa sya, he will just take the baby as his.
awwww! so sweet of my tatay. so mabait di ba?
to sacrifice and leave his own family just so to save a dimwit damsel in distress.
gee. what more can i say.
gusto ko lang tumumbling.

it doesn't end there.
my sister and her bf will get married soon.
and mamamanhikan sa haws namin next week.
when tatay found out abt it, he told us, 'tamang-tama, ipapakilala ko na rin ang bago kong aasawahin'.
ugh. he said that w/o batting an eyelash. as if it's the most natural thing in the world.

i don't know if he's testing our threshold for sanity or he's lost his mind already.

if that's the case, then they deserve each other i guess :)

i hope the gurl cares for him, bec i (and the rest of the family) simply cant.

2.07.2005

hiatus



apologies to everyone.

far from kumakalat na tsismis and urban legend,
nde pa po ako 'lumagay sa tahimik (read: nagpakasal)
*baka kasi dahil sa last post ko, kya ganun ang dating :D hehe*

or nagka-metacarpal tannal syndrome kya nde na makatype.
*da closest i got was kalyo sa daliri and varicose veins. ugh!*

at nde rin po ako nafire or ngresign kaya nde na ko ngbblog.
*alam ko madalas ko idahilan ito*

hmm... parang nag-february lng tinamad na ko mgblog.
oops! :D hehe.
i confess, mejo tinatamad ako mgblog lately.
and ala din akong ganang mgblog hop.
ewankoba. hayy.

ngfofocus muna ko sa aking ungrateful job.
subsob muna sa trabaho.
kayod marino kumbaga.
*palusot!!!!*

walang mashadong emosyong dumadaloy sa katawan ko kundi pagod.
ang tanging lakas na meron ako ay lakas ng pananampalataya na matatapos din 'tong phase na to.

in da hope na maenergize ko ang aking blog spirit,
bumili ako ng sangkatutak na vitamins!
tinry ko din imotivate sarili ko thru delectable food (sisig for lunch, apple cinnamon danish & mango juice for dessert)
i shopped for new clothes and shoes too.
my logic is, to make myself happy such that i'll be excited to blog and have something to write.

but it seems to be not working.

nde pala nabibili ang motivation.
at lalong nde ito parang gutom na pdeng idaan sa lamon
or appetite na napapagana ng vitamins :(

da only conclusion i can derive from this experience (granted that i understood it na) is that,
inspiration/interest (w/c i lack right now) is not about fulfiling basic needs and material acquisition.

*disclaimer: just bec i currently have a gf whom i love doesn't mean it solves all problems*

so i will write nonsensical stuff (like this one) as i await enlightenment *in yoga position*,
let all of you be warned: random trash ahead.

don't expect witticism of sorts here for the meantime.

firewomyn has lost her fire.
im stripped to being the womyn, w/ a mundane life, lost in a way, and nothing much to say.

2.01.2005

shower thoughts

during my shower, i realized why me and my gf clicks.
it is bec. we've been friends longer than my exes.
i can distinguish the difference.
we're more fluid. the rapport is better.
there is unspoken understanding.
it's almost like a 'couple' feeling.
i'm just happy that we turned out fine :)

1.24.2005

womyn in my mind



**warning!!! mush ahead! wehehe.**

omg! firewomyn is inlove!
how is firewomyn when inlove?
awfully ksp
consistently smiling
unbelievably inspired
unstoppably touchy
incredibly magastos
definitely loyal.

to da womyn in my mind:

i think you're so cute when you smile w/ your bangs falling just below your specs. and when you pout just to make fun of my antics.

goodies!



dis may seem schizo of me (after dat awful entry prior to dis) but it's not always doomsday for me.
here's a lil bit of sunshine & some redemption :)

  • on a lighter note, i'm free of my credit card debt already! yipee!!!
  • and i got back the 50% deduction i was punished with! *tumbling* twas a mess due to lapses in translation
  • had my defective atm finaly replaced after an exasperating experience & creating a scene at the bdo bank
  • my best friend's movin to makati w/ a hottie roommate! dis means more gimik time w/ my frends! hooray!

inTENSE!



kung lalaki siguro ako, umakyat na itlog ko sa leeg ko.
im dat tense right now.
on more controlled situations where there's still an atom of poise left in me, and i know there's a way out (read: lusot!),
i would have just spit, im not tense, im intense!
but, the reality is i've fucked up big time! and the damage is 60+ customers getting updated to the beta version of our soon to be released software (w/c i must add, is still under QA test).

i prayed hard for the earth to just swallow me whole, or i suddenly catch a contagious disease (in the hope that they'll pity me and won't find it in their hearts to be mad at me).

in my escapist mind, im believing that this is all a nightmare w/c i will soon wake up from.
or only a handful of people was affected, err, like 1 or 2? :D

i almost had a hear attack after running one query (to verify the damage) and saw the result of almost 300 customers affected by that fatal error. it's almost like 300 pairs of eyes glaring at me and questioning my capacity in this job. i imagined myself shrinking in their cold stare and getting buried alive from where i stand.

i did another query and it downsized to 69 (one of my favorite number, but not on this particular case). great! it's still a whole LOT of actual customers!

i would hav cried already but the fear crystallized the tears even before they come out of my eyes. cold fear.

if i don't get to update this blog anymore, that means i've been guillotined. but if i get lucky, i'll just lose my job. darn!

it never gets easy anymore. i want my mommy! sob. sob. :(

1.22.2005

food for thought



m so famished that my head aches already.
i dunno what's wrong with me.

i already felt the tummy need hours before.
and i know, without thinkin that i'll soon be hungry.
and i also know by experience that once i dont get the nourishment i need,
my head would be bitchin with me already.

and yet, i just continue with what im doing.
disregarding all the warning signs.
so my present predicament.

i dunno why i behave like this.
it's almost a death sentence if i continue with this eating pattern.

is it just pure laziness to go downstairs and scrounge for a meal and satiate the demands of
my complaining tummy? or a hunger strike after all the unjust things done to me by my ungrateful profession?

i think im just plain nuts.
i knowingly abuse myself.
and i have this deep-seated faith that my body

will self-heal and self-sustain.

who am i kidding?

knowing is not enough.
and faith has limits.

im soo dead! ugh!

**ramblings of a famished womyn**

1.21.2005

a girl, a coke and a song

note:
song in the coke tv ad, w/ da gurl in red who has a case of colas in her bag :D
nde ako umiinom ng softdrinks pero i specially like dis song.
swabe lng pro may dating ;)





sana'y masabi sa awit kong ito
lahat ng ninanais nitong puso ko
sana saan man, patungo sa buhay
may pag-ibig, may pag-asa,
may saya at saysay
sana sa bawat sandali matikman pa
sarap ng pagsasama at simpleng ligaya
tara na,
sakyan lang
malay mo
andyan lang,
andyan lang
ang hinahanap mo.


quote in time



"laughter is often the best
and sometimes the only response to pain"


-bill clinton

1.20.2005

yuppy's (young urban poor professional) tale



back to earth!

work sucks big time!
just when i've been doin' my damn best all for the love of my work, i get to be knocked down by the ultimate fact abt being a yuppy (young urban poor professional).

it's all about the dough!

i just got the big news that my salary has been slashed to half all because i failed to copy furnish the big boss' exec. asst in my mgt report for 4 friggin' days.

this implies that a day's work is broken down into two:

50% actual work w/ output (meetings, submission of deliverables, issue resolutions, sending of reports)

50% copy furnishing the EA on sending the mgt report thru email

Whatta fuckin' revelation to me! Tangina!

As was taught in UP, the corporate world doesn't just kill the activist in you -- it obliterates it!

I'm really upset right now. crushed, disgruntled and uber pissed!

heaven help me :(

I've been in series of overnight work for days now and the usual fighter in me is not up for a duel right now.
I lack the physical strength to argue and spit fire. I may feel beat, but definitely not beaten.
Tom is a day for reckoning! Tangina nyong lahat! Resbak time!

bakit ayaw ko mainlove?



kasi ayaw ko na muna mapraning
ung tipong nde lng sha magtext for a few hours e ikot n pwet ko, kakaisip kung ano na nangyayari sa kanya or kung mahal pa nya ko.

kasi ayaw ko ng obligasyon.
shempre, kakamustahin mo, kung kumain na ba, kung nakauwi ba ng safe, kung ok lng sha, kung matutulog na ba sha. magpapaalam ka sa mga lakad mo or activities mo.

kasi gusto ko magfocus sa work ko.
pg inlove ka kasi and may konti lang kayo tampuhan, apektado na work mo, kasi nde ka makaconcentrate kakaisip abt sa inyo and pano ayusin ung tampuhan/away nyo. and you have to devote time for QT (quality time), so bawas muna OT pra maka QT.

kasi gusto ko sana magtipid.
nde naman sa nagbibilang, kaso totoo namang pag inlove, magastos. kasi generous ako pg inlove.
txt galore. call galore. date galore. gift galore.
(ohshit! tunog matrona ah! wehehe)

kasi gusto ko pa magwala.
in other words, gusto ko pa mambabae! lol! :D

kasi takot pa ko masaktan.
ewankoba, andami gustong gusto na mainlove, kahit alam naman natin na nde maiiwasan ang masaktan.
kakambal na ng love ang pain.

kasi gusto ko muna mahalin sarili ko.
minsan kasi pg sobrang inlove, nalilimot ang sarili para lang sa mahal nya. swerte mo kung ang mamahalin mo ay aalagaaan ka ng husto at mas priority ang mapasaya ka.

kasi nde pa ko handa magsinungaling na naman sa pamilya ko.
dahil closet ako, madaming itatago: ang pagdedate, ang pgdeny sa kung may karelasyon ka na (kasi nde nmn nila kakayanin kahit aminin mo), kung saan lakad mo at sino kasama mo, sino kausap mo sa phone, sino nagbigay sau nyan (gifts ng mahal mo), para kanino yang binili mo, etc. magtatahi na naman ng elaborate na kasinungalingan.

kasi ayaw ko na naman umasa.
na ito na un! na magtatagal ito.

kung pdeng mamili, ayaw ko pa mainlove.
kung pdeng umiwas, ayaw ko pa mainvolve.
kung kayang bawalan ang puso, ayaw ko muna ito kumabog
kung kayang pigilan ang damdamin, ayaw ko munang umibig.

kaso nde pde, nde kaya.
so kahit ayaw ko pang mainlove, wala akong magagawa.
kundi :

-mapraning sa pag-aalala para sa minamahal.
-maging responsable nde para sa sarili lamang kundi sa kabiyak.
-matutong balansehin ang trabaho at relasyon.
-gumastos ng para sa dalawa at nde mgkwenta (kasi walang price tag ang pagmamahal).
-magwala or do wild stuff pero tangi lamang sa kasintahan.
-maging handa na masaktan at iwasang masaktan and tinatangi hanggat maaari.
-mahalin ang sarili at kapareha.
-maglihim muna sa pamilya para sa ikakapayapa ng lahat.
-umasam at pagsikapang tumagal ang pagsasama.


ayaw ko pa sanang mainlove, pero huli na.
dahil umiibig na uli ako.

1.19.2005

kapag sinabi ko sa iyo

by gary granada



**dahil inlababo ako ... :p **


kapag sinabi ko sa iyo
na ika'y minamahal
sana'y maunawaan mo
na ako'y isang mortal

na nde ko kayang abutin mga bituin at buwan
di kaya ay sisirin perlas ng karagatan

kapag sinabi ko sa iyo
na ika'y iniibig
sana'y maunawaan mo
na ako'y taga-daigdig
kagaya ng karamihan
karaniwang karanasan
dala dala kahit saan
pangaraw-araw na pasan

ako'y nde romantiko
sa iyo'y di ko matitiyak
na 'pag ako'y kapiling mo
kailan may di ka iiyak

mga magandang hinaharap
sikapin nating maabot
ngunit kung nde pa maganap
sanay wag mong ikalungkot

kapag sinabi ko sa iyo
na ika'y sinisinta
sana'y ibigin mo ako
mulat ang iyong mga mata

kayamanan kong dala
ay pandama't kamalayan
na natutunan sa iba
na nabighani sa bayan

halinat ating pandayin
isang malayang daigdig
upang doon payabungin
isang malayang pag-ibig


kapag sinabi ko sa 'yo
na ika'y sinusuyo
sana'y yakapin mo ako
kasama ang aking mundo.

1.12.2005

for da love of



ang firewomyn pg nanahimik, at nde nagsusulat, ibig sabihin, ginapos n ng trabaho kya nde man lng makapag-update ng blog :)

o kaya dami lakad kya walang time kumapa ng pc, *kc iba ang kinakapa! wehehe!*

ang totoo nito, naging abala talaga ako sa aking so-called career. nde talaga madali kumita ng pera.
nasa isa akong propesyon na nde ko naman napag-aralan at nde natural na hilig. ang tanging gusto ko dito s trabaho ko ay ang sahod, at technology.
but come to think of it, sagana nga ako sa net connection, nasa mtg naman ako lagi. syet!
competitive nga sahod, kaso antaas din ng stress level ko. potek naman o!
kumbaga, kulang p sahod ko pangpsychiatrist, pmpaospital, ska pambili ng sandamakmak n vitamins.
so nage-even out lng pala sha. tangina! lugi pala ako ah. darn!
nde nmn ako bobo ska martir, so there must be other reasons why im still here in this company after 2yrs of gradual torture. ano nga ba? *piga piga s kakaisip*

when i started here, i lyk d culture. multiracial *altho ang totoo, 2 races lng, pinoy at others*
iba rin mejo ung experience pg may expat kang katrabaho, maeexercise leeg mo kakatingala pg kausap cla.
mejo gagaling ka s english or s slang nila. mga generic vocabs na nagagamit, "dunno, gonna, yeah, really?! right, uhuh". tatapang ang tolerance mo s amoy ng nde agad naliligo or ngtutoothbrush pagkakain. matututo kang maging straight forward. dito ko rin narealize n pde k naman maging successful and at d same time maintain ur individuality!

kc kahit ano isuot mo ok lng, it won't affect how ur work is perceived or evaluated. mismong ceo namin nakaslippers lng madalas e ska nakashurt pero antindi ng utak! pde kang may tattoo or tongue ring ska maging palamura or bastos pro nde ibig sabhin non e wala kang pinag-aralan. matinik k p rin s work mo.
dito rin ako namulat n nde porke kano e magaling na. dami ring palusot ng mga un! kaya equal n lng tingin ko s kanila. ang bilib ako s kanila or atleast s expat ska foreigners n nakakadaupang-palad ko is ung assertive cla magsalita, kahit mali cla. nadadaan s delivery. kainis! pro pg nsanay k n, nde k n basta papadala, eepal k n rin.

ang mga tao dito, mga liberated, open lahat ng topic. sex/porn, drugs, rock n roll, politics, sports, napag-uusapan, walang taboo. nde mshado uso tsismis kc open book halos lahat s buhay nila. or wala lang pakialam or pakialamanan. e ano kung s babae ako nagkakagusto, e ano kung may asawa na ang jowa nung isa, e ano kung kalahati ng edad nya ang syota nya, e ano kung cross dresser sya, e ano kung may kabit ung isa, e ano kung madami nakakasex ung isa, e ano bang paki mo?! astig d ba?!

nde madali ang trabaho dito. kasi ang kakompetensha namin ang buong universe! kalabanin mo b naman ang microsoft, nde b parang universe n rin ang kinalaban mo?! tangina work here is tougher dan carabao meat i tell you!

nde uubra ang petiks. madaling mabisto ang mga puro bullshit lng. at lilitaw at lilitaw kung wala kang utak or tamad ka.

24/7 ang operation kc part dotcom e. so on-call status ako. ibig sabihin, walang oras na pinipili, pde kang tawagan pg may problema, parang tunog super hero di ba? hehehe. dati, masaya ako pg nagriring celphone ko, pero ngayon, may halong kaba na. kc malamang s kulang, problema ito. naranasan ko na ang gisingin ng madaling araw at bumalik sa ofc ng nakatsinelas at shorts lng. nde na rin bago ung asa gitna k ng panonood mo ng sine ay tatawagan ka. kanya-kanyang coping mechanism n lng ito. pdeng takas k muna from work then balik k n lng kung alam mo n gagabihin k rin lng. or kung makapal-kapal k, dedmahin ang col or ioff ang fone. goodluck n lng kung majajustify mo sha kinabukasan! bawat segundo n down ang sistema nyo, ilang dollars ang nalulugi. hanep s pressure di ba? so wala ka nang choice kundi tumapang otherwise, pakamatay k n lng or lumipat.

u might ask, for da love of god & myself, bakit despite ng sangkatutak kong reklamo at hirap, e andito p rin ako?

isang malalim na hay. i guess, underneath my battle scars, it's for da sheer love of my work that's why i continue to fight and continue to be challenged :)

1.07.2005

fish & fire wisdom

1. when someone says "I love you" to you, it actually means, "Do you love me too?"

-nugget of wisdom from goldfish memory

2. when someone says "i love you" to you

a. and you don't feel the same, just say, "thank you!" *that says it all*

b. and you like the person but not really love yet, just hug the person tight *it's a positive response w/o really committing to anything yet*

c. and you want to test the sincerity of the person, ask, "why?" *if s/he can't say anything, it's probably just great sex! wehehe!*

-nuggets of wisdom from firewomyn


hapi weekend!!!

the goddamn girl is mine!



*note: para sa mga possessive na tulad ko! ahehehe. pag kinanta nyo to, masarap pag lasing na, para with conviction when you say, "bec d goddamn girl is mine!" *tagay pa!* wehehe. napakinggan ko to in reggae version, patok! pag may nakita akong downloadable na ganung rendition, post ko dito. for the meantime, mgtyaga muna tau kay jacko and paul mccartney ;)


[1st verse (womyn1)]
every night she walks right in my dreams
since i met her from the start
i'm so proud i am the only one
who is special in her heart

[chorus]
the girl is mine
the goddamn girl is mine
i know she's mine
because the goddamn girl is mine

[2nd verse (womyn2)]
i don't understand the way you think
saying that she's yours not mine
sending roses and your silly dreams
really just a waste of time

[chorus]
because she's mine
the goddamn girl is mine
don't waste your time
because the goddamn girl is mine

[bridge (womyn2)]
i love you more than she
(take you anywhere)

[womyn1]
but i love you endlessly
(loving we will share)

[womyn1 & womyn2]
so come and go with me
to one town

[womyn1]
but we both cannot have her
so it's one or the other
and one day you'll discover
that she's my girl forever and ever

[3rd verse (womyn2)]
i don't build your hopes to be let down
'cause i really feel it's time

[womyn1]
i know she'll tell you i'm the one for her
'cause she said i blow her mind

chorus (womyn1)
the girl is mine
the goddamn girl is mine
don't waste your time
because the goddamn girl is mine

[womyn1 & womyn2]
she's mine, she's mine
no, no, no, she's mine
the girl is mine, the girl is mine
the girl is mine, the girl is mine

[womyn2]
the girl is mine, (yep) she's mine
the girl is mine, (yep) she's mine

[womyn1]
don't waste your time
because the goddamn girl is mine
the girl is mine, the girl is mine

[womyn2]
womyn1, we're not going to fight about this, okay

[womyn1]
womyn2, i think i told you, i'm a lover not a fighter

[womyn2]
i've heard it all before, womyn1
she told me that i'm her forever lover, you know, don't you remember

[womyn1]
well, after loving me, she said she couldn't love another

[womyn2]
is that what she said

[womyn1]
yes, she said it, you keep dreaming

[womyn2]
i don't believe it

[womyn1 & womyn2]
the girl is mine (mine, mine, mine)

[fade-out/repeat]