8.25.2012
Queer Manila Exhibit in Makati today at 3pm
When: August 25, 3pm.
Where: Manila Contemporary, Whitespace, 2314 Chino Roces Ave Extension (formerly Pasong Tamo extension, Brgy Magallanes, Makati City.
RSVP Iris Ferrer 632 576 5024.
email: i.ferrer@manilacontemporary.com.
Queer Manila attempts to create a visual discussion around gender and sexuality within local contexts and internationalised LGBT discourse. It explores the understandings, misunderstandings, conflicts, humours, loves, eroticisms, deviances, spectacles, and dilemmas within Lesbian, Gay, Bi-Sexual and Transgender identities.
Identity and gender have always been in processes of flux, subjected to numerous influences and social behaviours that change over time, creating different sites for cultures, politics, psychologies, spiritualities and biologies to define who we are. The show, therefore, is about activating and including multiple audiences in a visual conversation about how we look, exchange ideas and comment on gender and sexuality within LGBT communities. It is about processes of othering and reclaiming, through contemporary art’s ability to share, question, and develop these identities. As such, artists have been invited to contribute personal stories, as well as comment on the notion of body politics, activism and culture across generations through various media.
To compliment the exhibition and diversify this conversation, a programme of performances, films, talks and events has been organised that will take place in the gallery over the duration of the exhibition. For a summary of this program, see the schedule below:
OPENING DAY
25 August, 2-9PM
Performances by Maya Munoz in collaboration with Julie Tolentino, Jef Carnay and Martin Lorenzo de Mesa, with a poetry reading by Danton Remoto, Chairman Emeritus of Ang Ladlad
FILM PROGRAMME (Upstairs Gallery)
Pagdadalaga ni Maximo Oliveros (2005)
Directed by Aureus Solito and written by Michiko Yamamoto. Produced by UFO Pictures.
September 9 and 16, 1PM
Zombadings (2011)
Directed by Jade Castro, also co-written with Raymond Lee, Michiko Yamamoto.
September 9 and 16, 3PM
EVENTS AND TALKS
Book signing by J. Neil C. Garcia (Editor) of “Aura”: The Gay Theme in Philippine Fiction in English
A collection of gay-themed short stories and novel excerpts from Philippine fictionists in English. Featuring the works of Jose Garcia Villa, Bienvenido N. Santos, NVM Gonzalez, Nick Joaquin, and Edith L. Tiempo etc.
September 1, 5PM
Talk by Enzo Camacho + Amy Lien
Sharing their processes as creative partners and performers
September 8, 12NN
Hubad: Mga Kwento ng Kalayaan
Guerilla theater event by LeAP! (Lesbian Activists Philippines)
September 15
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This exhibition is in kind collaboration with:
Ang Ladlad (https://www.facebook.com/LadladPartyListOfficial)
LeAP! (https://www.facebook.com/LeAPPhilippines)
Origin8 Media (http://www.origin8media.com/)
source here.
8.24.2012
Oral Sex Risks!!!
scary! BUT but better to be safe than sorry. take pap smear, hpv tests, consult a trustworthy gynecologist, if you or your partner had multiple sex partners already. being on a girl-to-girl sexual relation DOESN'T guarantee we are free from STD. if you love your partner, you will get tested and ensure she's safe and protected.
CDC Warns That Oral Sex Is Still Risky: How Queers Who Like Vaginas Can Keep Them Safe
"... teens and young adults have more oral sex than vaginal intercourse (as we mentioned in the NSFW Sunday). According to the report, this discrepancy is a result of a desire to maintain virginity, avoid pregnancy and avoid risk of contracting a sexually transmitted infection. But the CDC notes that because young people perceive oral sex as a risk-free behavior, they are "placing themselves at risk of STIs or HIV before they are ever at risk of pregnancy."
Saliva does not carry HIV, but your mouth is a mucous membrane, and according to Gay Men's Health, "cells in the mucous lining of the mouth may carry HIV into the lymph nodes or the bloodstream." Clark-Flory writes that while HIV may be people's biggest fear, it's actually easier to transmit herpes, gonorrhea, chlamydia, syphilis and HPV. Less risky but still possible are Hepatitis A, gastrointestinal infections, and parasites.
health risks associated with oral sex are extremely relevant to the interests of the queer community. It seems that in general, blow jobs are riskier than cunnilingus, but according to Professor Christopher Hurt of the Division of Infectious Diseases at the University of North Carolina at Chapel Hill, you are just as likely to contract syphilis, herpes, or HPV from a vagina as from a penis, “Since these infections can occur both inside the vagina and on the skin surface.” So queers, please take note: being on a vagina-only diet does not a risk-free lifestyle make.
... an important thing to keep in mind when you are deciding whether or not to use protection with a partner. What we can take from this study is that a queer person who encounters penises in their mouth is more likely in general to have contracted an STI than a queer person who doesn't. So if you or your partner fits this description, you might consider taking an extra measure of protection. And if you have multiple partners, it's even more important, because your risk increases with every additional person you add to your sexual network.
If you don't use protection with your partner, you are what is known as "fluid-bonded." This means that you have agreed to share your bodily fluids with each other. And with that agreement, much like the power to shoot webs from your hands, comes great responsibility. You should definitely get tested before doing so — if you don't have health insurance, get on the internet and find your nearest free health clinic. If you're in college, your health center should provide testing services. It's possible to be fluid-bonded to one person while having multiple partners whom you are not fluid-bonded to, but you have an obligation to your fluid-bonded partner to use protection with everyone else. The key here is going to be communication. It's not really fair to the people you are having sex with to have secrets that could put them at risk."source and full story here
8.23.2012
Ang Ikaklit sa Aming Hardin , lez-themed kiddie book is OUT!
remember this post about the first ever children story in the Philippines with lesbian parents in the characters and the theme? many of you expressed that you want to buy once available. well, happy news! the book is OUT! *buti pa sya. ako kaya kelan. hehe.*
Ang Ikaklit sa Aming Hardin
Ang karaniwang pakahulugan sa pamilya ay yaong
binubuo ng ama, ina, at mga anak, na nananahan nang sama-sama. Ito ang
namamayaning depinisyon at kalakhan sa atin ay dito namulat kung kaya
nagmimistulang ito lamang ang natatanging imahen ng pamilya na dapat
sundin. Gayumpaman, hindi maitatanggi ang pag-iral ng iba pang anyo ng
pamilya na labas sa depinisyong ito. Mayroong mga pamilyang isa lang ang
tumatayong magulang, may mga anak na nagmula sa ibang magulang, mayroon
din namang mga batang dalawa ang nanay o tatay, may mga pamilyang
malayo sa isa’t isa, at iba pa. Patunay ang mga ito ng pangangailangang
magluwal ng mas masaklaw na kahulugan ng pamilya. Isang depinisyong
hindi nakatali sa larawang nakasanayan bagkus ay tumatanaw sa esensiya
ng isang tahanang mapagkalinga, mapang-unawa, at ginagabayan ng
pagmamahal.
Maraming anyo ang pamilya. Tulad ng mga bulaklak sa isang halamanan, mayroon itong iba’t ibang itsura, kulay, bango, at laki. Sapagkat ang anumang uri ng pagsasamang nakasandig sa pag-ibig ay dapat kilalanin bilang pamilya. Isa rito ang kuwento ni Ikaklit. Bagaman iba sa trasdisyunal, maituturing na pamilya ang samahang bumibigkis sa kaniya at sa dalawa niyang ina.
Maraming anyo ang pamilya. Tulad ng mga bulaklak sa isang halamanan, mayroon itong iba’t ibang itsura, kulay, bango, at laki. Sapagkat ang anumang uri ng pagsasamang nakasandig sa pag-ibig ay dapat kilalanin bilang pamilya. Isa rito ang kuwento ni Ikaklit. Bagaman iba sa trasdisyunal, maituturing na pamilya ang samahang bumibigkis sa kaniya at sa dalawa niyang ina.
Available in the following bookshops:
IBON BOOKSHOP
#114 Timog Ave.,
Quezon City
(632) 927-7060 |
927-7061 | 927-7062
POPULAR BOOKSTORE
#305 Tomas Morato
Avenue, Quezon City
(632) 372-2162
UP PRESS BOOKSTORE
E. de los Santos
Street
UP Campus Diliman,
Quezon City
(632) 926-6642
MT. CLOUD
Casa Vallejo, Upper
Session Rd., Baguio City
(074) 424-4437
(Simula Agosto 26,
2012)
You can also email publikasyong.twamkittens@gmail.com to get a copy of the book, "Ang Ikaklit sa Aming Hardin."
Book launch is on
September 13, 2012, 3:00-5:00pm,
Claro M. Recto Hall, College of Arts & Literature
UP Diliman.
EVERYONE's invited! :)
Det Neri, author
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8.22.2012
Two women Tie the Knot in Taiwan
while i was busy with my work turnover, THIS happened. =) as the Dutch proverb says, "When a door closes, a window opens." For their case, even though there is no same sex marriage law yet, who says they can't get married if they want to?! truly! LOVE FINDS A WAY. tayo nang magbakasyon sa Taiwan! *let's go visit Taiwan!*
TAOYUAN, Taiwan – Two women tied the knot on Saturday, August 11, in Taiwan’s first same-sex Buddhist wedding, a move rights groups hope will help make the island become the first place in Asia to legalize gay marriage.
Fish Huang and You Ya-ting , who have been together for seven years, exchanged vow and prayer beads instead of rings at a monastery in Taoyuan, northern Taiwan, accompanied by chants from nearly 300 Buddhists.
Shih Chao-hwei, a Buddhist master and university professor, offered to perform the ceremony herself after the couple approached her to ask if their faith condemned homosexuality.
“We are witnessing history. The two women are willing to stand out and fight for their fate… to overcome social discrimination,” said Shih, a well-known advocate for social justice.
You Ya-ting, left, and her partner Huang Mei-yu stamp their names in front of a statue of Buddha in the prayer hall as they are married in the first Taiwan same sex Buddhist ceremonial wedding in Taoyuan, Taiwan, Saturday, Aug. 11, 2012. Taiwan still does not legally recognize same sex marriage.
“Some people might find it astounding [a woman performing the ceremony] but Buddhism does not engage in ideological struggles and I am used to strange looks from my own experience in the social movement,” she said.
The couple’s parents were notably absent from the ceremony, in an indication of the pressure facing some homosexuals and their families.
“We hope with the master’s support, the wedding will change many people’s perspective even though it is not legally binding,” said the social worker. “We hope the government can legalise same-sex marriage soon.”
"We decided to get married last year," Huang told Agence France Presse July 11, 2012.
“After being together for six years, we feel we need to make a life-long commitment to each other.”
“After being together for six years, we feel we need to make a life-long commitment to each other.”
and they did!
Lesbian couple celebrate Taiwan's first Buddhist same-sex wedding
TAOYUAN, Taiwan – Two women tied the knot on Saturday, August 11, in Taiwan’s first same-sex Buddhist wedding, a move rights groups hope will help make the island become the first place in Asia to legalize gay marriage.
Fish Huang and You Ya-ting , who have been together for seven years, exchanged vow and prayer beads instead of rings at a monastery in Taoyuan, northern Taiwan, accompanied by chants from nearly 300 Buddhists.
Shih Chao-hwei, a Buddhist master and university professor, offered to perform the ceremony herself after the couple approached her to ask if their faith condemned homosexuality.
“We are witnessing history. The two women are willing to stand out and fight for their fate… to overcome social discrimination,” said Shih, a well-known advocate for social justice.
You Ya-ting, left, and her partner Huang Mei-yu stamp their names in front of a statue of Buddha in the prayer hall as they are married in the first Taiwan same sex Buddhist ceremonial wedding in Taoyuan, Taiwan, Saturday, Aug. 11, 2012. Taiwan still does not legally recognize same sex marriage.
“Some people might find it astounding [a woman performing the ceremony] but Buddhism does not engage in ideological struggles and I am used to strange looks from my own experience in the social movement,” she said.
colorful as their love :)
The couple’s parents were notably absent from the ceremony, in an indication of the pressure facing some homosexuals and their families.
“Our parents initially agreed to attend and they regret that they
couldn’t be here. We understand that people have different acceptance of
media exposure and we want to give them more space,” Huang said shortly
before the wedding.
“We hope with the master’s support, the wedding will change many people’s perspective even though it is not legally binding,” said the social worker. “We hope the government can legalise same-sex marriage soon.”
Taiwan is one of the most culturally liberal societies in East Asia,
and gay and lesbian groups have been urging the government for years to
make same-sex unions legal.
Aiming to create awareness about the issue, about 80 lesbian couples
tied the knot last year in Taiwan’s biggest same-sex wedding party,
attracting about 1,000 friends, relatives and curious onlookers.
Fish Huang told the Taipei Times last month: 'We are not only doing it for ourselves, but also for other gays and lesbians.'
The first public gay marriage in Taiwan took place in 1996 but this is the first known Buddhist wedding.
Gay rights groups are pushing for President Ma Ying-jeou to legislate for same-sex marriage and to allow gay couples to adopt before his term ends in 2016.
sources
http://www.freemalaysiatoday.com/category/world/2012/07/11/taiwan-to-stage-1st-same-sex-buddhist-wedding/
http://www.pinas.net/2012/08/taiwan-couple-in-same-sex-buddhist-wedding/
http://www.taiwanholidays.com.au/taiwans-first-gay-guddhist-wedding
http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-2186983/Lesbian-couple-celebrate-Taiwans-Buddhist-sex-wedding.html
Video clips
http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-2186983/Lesbian-couple-celebrate-Taiwans-Buddhist-sex-wedding.html
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5jwsm-Z6Ka4
The first public gay marriage in Taiwan took place in 1996 but this is the first known Buddhist wedding.
Gay rights groups are pushing for President Ma Ying-jeou to legislate for same-sex marriage and to allow gay couples to adopt before his term ends in 2016.
sources
http://www.freemalaysiatoday.com/category/world/2012/07/11/taiwan-to-stage-1st-same-sex-buddhist-wedding/
http://www.pinas.net/2012/08/taiwan-couple-in-same-sex-buddhist-wedding/
http://www.taiwanholidays.com.au/taiwans-first-gay-guddhist-wedding
http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-2186983/Lesbian-couple-celebrate-Taiwans-Buddhist-sex-wedding.html
Video clips
http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-2186983/Lesbian-couple-celebrate-Taiwans-Buddhist-sex-wedding.html
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5jwsm-Z6Ka4
Labels:
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8.12.2012
Lesbians/Bi Pro Athletes
with the oLympics fever in London, sharing some of the best and the famous kickass lesbians/bi athletes to make us prouder and more importantly, inspired. =)
Megan Rapinoe
Though she has been openly gay to her family and teammates for quite some time, she candidly spoke about her sexuality during an interview with Out: "For the record: I am gay," she told the gay magazine.
"To be honest, I've been thinking about it for a while, trying to find a time that works. Now leading up to the Olympics, people want to get personal stories," she says. "Our team in general is in a position where people look up to us and kids look up to us. I embrace that and I think I have a huge LGBT following. I think it's pretty cool, the opportunity that I have, especially in sports. There's really not that many out athletes. It's important to be out and to live my life that way.
"It's about standing up and being counted and saying you're proud of who you are."
Rapinoe, who also plays for the Seattle Sounders of the Major League Soccer women's division, told USA Today she has been getting "positive" feedback after her announcement.
"It's been good," she says. "It's all been extremely positive, which makes me really happy."
Rapinoe came out on the same day Anderson Cooper did as well in a letter that was published by the Daily Beast's Andrew Sullivan.
Martina Navratilova
The Prague-born tennis pro, who came out as bisexual in 1981, is credited with having "expanded the dialogue on issues of gender and sexuality in sports," according to ESPN.
"Martina was the first legitimate superstar who literally came out while she was a superstar," Donna Lopiano, executive director of the Women's Sports Foundation, said. "She exploded the barrier by putting it on the table. She basically said this part of my life doesn't have anything to do with me as a tennis player. Judge me for who I am."
At the age of 55 and after a string of tempestuous love affairs, Martina Navratilova has finally embraced motherhood. She has become a parent to her girlfriend’s two young daughters, an arrangement she referred to as her ‘instantaneous family’.
The gay tennis star, who won Wimbledon a record nine times, has spoken of her happiness and admitted that motherhood has changed her life.
Miss Navratilova has been in a relationship with former Russian beauty queen Julia Lemigova, 41, since 2006, and the couple were first pictured together in 2009.
Professional Kickass Athletes and they're Lesbians/Bisexual
Megan Rapinoe
U.S. women's soccer team midfielder Megan Rapinoe
publicly announced that she is a lesbian for the first time on Monday,
less than a month before the London Olympic Games.
Rapinoe, 27, who is best known for her stellar athletic skills and
upbeat personality, wants her coming out story to empower LGBT people, USA Today reported.Though she has been openly gay to her family and teammates for quite some time, she candidly spoke about her sexuality during an interview with Out: "For the record: I am gay," she told the gay magazine.
"To be honest, I've been thinking about it for a while, trying to find a time that works. Now leading up to the Olympics, people want to get personal stories," she says. "Our team in general is in a position where people look up to us and kids look up to us. I embrace that and I think I have a huge LGBT following. I think it's pretty cool, the opportunity that I have, especially in sports. There's really not that many out athletes. It's important to be out and to live my life that way.
"It's about standing up and being counted and saying you're proud of who you are."
Rapinoe, who also plays for the Seattle Sounders of the Major League Soccer women's division, told USA Today she has been getting "positive" feedback after her announcement.
"It's been good," she says. "It's all been extremely positive, which makes me really happy."
Rapinoe came out on the same day Anderson Cooper did as well in a letter that was published by the Daily Beast's Andrew Sullivan.
Martina Navratilova
The Prague-born tennis pro, who came out as bisexual in 1981, is credited with having "expanded the dialogue on issues of gender and sexuality in sports," according to ESPN.
"Martina was the first legitimate superstar who literally came out while she was a superstar," Donna Lopiano, executive director of the Women's Sports Foundation, said. "She exploded the barrier by putting it on the table. She basically said this part of my life doesn't have anything to do with me as a tennis player. Judge me for who I am."
At the age of 55 and after a string of tempestuous love affairs, Martina Navratilova has finally embraced motherhood. She has become a parent to her girlfriend’s two young daughters, an arrangement she referred to as her ‘instantaneous family’.
The gay tennis star, who won Wimbledon a record nine times, has spoken of her happiness and admitted that motherhood has changed her life.
Miss Navratilova has been in a relationship with former Russian beauty queen Julia Lemigova, 41, since 2006, and the couple were first pictured together in 2009.
Labels:
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8.09.2012
too stupid
something really stupid to distract me from the misery that is typhoon. oh wait, yeah, there is no typhoon! dang! just torrential rains brought about by either climate change or what the more stupid people assume as God's wrath/disapproval of RH Bill.
Matt Bomer Is Too Gay For 'Fifty Shades Of Grey,' Says Bret Easton Ellis
8.04.2012
Ink Exclusive Party
an interesting kind of exclusive party :)
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Any actor in their right mind would TURN DOWN an offered role to be in this PRONO! Especially when it's based off a poorly written fan fiction to begin with...- Rachelsniff
By the way Neil Patrick Harris is gay in real life but plays an excellent womanizer on How I Met Your Mother, so maybe it's about the actor's skills and not orientation. - kwyang
On the other hand - comments like this are the obvious reason why so many performers stay closeted. Shameful.
But - still - any decent actor should be relieved to not having anything to do with this book - although I suspect the money offered will be too high to turn down. - waitingforlifeafterbush
His comments, and the twisted explanations they prompted, are too weird and laughable to even go after him. Obviously, someone forgot to tell him that the actors in movies are acting...that's why they are actors and some are better at their craft than others. - tippisheadrun
I had no idea he was gay before reading this article. There's nothing gay about his character unless you generalize a sharp dresser and connoisseur of the finer things in life as "gay". I never saw him with a woman on screen and thought "That dude likes dudes."
In other words, it's BEE's problem, not MB's.
Unfortunately, casting directors and studio execs expect BEE's obsession to be the standard reaction to casting a gay man in a straight role, particularly a leading role. This is one of the reasons many actors choose not to come out -- and one of the reasons we should laud the courage of those who do. - CBLoughry