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8.25.2012
Queer Manila Exhibit in Makati today at 3pm
When: August 25, 3pm.
Where: Manila Contemporary, Whitespace, 2314 Chino Roces Ave Extension (formerly Pasong Tamo extension, Brgy Magallanes, Makati City.
RSVP Iris Ferrer 632 576 5024.
email: i.ferrer@manilacontemporary.com.
Queer Manila attempts to create a visual discussion around gender and sexuality within local contexts and internationalised LGBT discourse. It explores the understandings, misunderstandings, conflicts, humours, loves, eroticisms, deviances, spectacles, and dilemmas within Lesbian, Gay, Bi-Sexual and Transgender identities.
Identity and gender have always been in processes of flux, subjected to numerous influences and social behaviours that change over time, creating different sites for cultures, politics, psychologies, spiritualities and biologies to define who we are. The show, therefore, is about activating and including multiple audiences in a visual conversation about how we look, exchange ideas and comment on gender and sexuality within LGBT communities. It is about processes of othering and reclaiming, through contemporary art’s ability to share, question, and develop these identities. As such, artists have been invited to contribute personal stories, as well as comment on the notion of body politics, activism and culture across generations through various media.
To compliment the exhibition and diversify this conversation, a programme of performances, films, talks and events has been organised that will take place in the gallery over the duration of the exhibition. For a summary of this program, see the schedule below:
OPENING DAY
25 August, 2-9PM
Performances by Maya Munoz in collaboration with Julie Tolentino, Jef Carnay and Martin Lorenzo de Mesa, with a poetry reading by Danton Remoto, Chairman Emeritus of Ang Ladlad
FILM PROGRAMME (Upstairs Gallery)
Pagdadalaga ni Maximo Oliveros (2005)
Directed by Aureus Solito and written by Michiko Yamamoto. Produced by UFO Pictures.
September 9 and 16, 1PM
Zombadings (2011)
Directed by Jade Castro, also co-written with Raymond Lee, Michiko Yamamoto.
September 9 and 16, 3PM
EVENTS AND TALKS
Book signing by J. Neil C. Garcia (Editor) of “Aura”: The Gay Theme in Philippine Fiction in English
A collection of gay-themed short stories and novel excerpts from Philippine fictionists in English. Featuring the works of Jose Garcia Villa, Bienvenido N. Santos, NVM Gonzalez, Nick Joaquin, and Edith L. Tiempo etc.
September 1, 5PM
Talk by Enzo Camacho + Amy Lien
Sharing their processes as creative partners and performers
September 8, 12NN
Hubad: Mga Kwento ng Kalayaan
Guerilla theater event by LeAP! (Lesbian Activists Philippines)
September 15
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This exhibition is in kind collaboration with:
Ang Ladlad (https://www.facebook.com/LadladPartyListOfficial)
LeAP! (https://www.facebook.com/LeAPPhilippines)
Origin8 Media (http://www.origin8media.com/)
source here.
8.24.2012
Oral Sex Risks!!!
scary! BUT but better to be safe than sorry. take pap smear, hpv tests, consult a trustworthy gynecologist, if you or your partner had multiple sex partners already. being on a girl-to-girl sexual relation DOESN'T guarantee we are free from STD. if you love your partner, you will get tested and ensure she's safe and protected.
CDC Warns That Oral Sex Is Still Risky: How Queers Who Like Vaginas Can Keep Them Safe
"... teens and young adults have more oral sex than vaginal intercourse (as we mentioned in the NSFW Sunday). According to the report, this discrepancy is a result of a desire to maintain virginity, avoid pregnancy and avoid risk of contracting a sexually transmitted infection. But the CDC notes that because young people perceive oral sex as a risk-free behavior, they are "placing themselves at risk of STIs or HIV before they are ever at risk of pregnancy."
Saliva does not carry HIV, but your mouth is a mucous membrane, and according to Gay Men's Health, "cells in the mucous lining of the mouth may carry HIV into the lymph nodes or the bloodstream." Clark-Flory writes that while HIV may be people's biggest fear, it's actually easier to transmit herpes, gonorrhea, chlamydia, syphilis and HPV. Less risky but still possible are Hepatitis A, gastrointestinal infections, and parasites.
health risks associated with oral sex are extremely relevant to the interests of the queer community. It seems that in general, blow jobs are riskier than cunnilingus, but according to Professor Christopher Hurt of the Division of Infectious Diseases at the University of North Carolina at Chapel Hill, you are just as likely to contract syphilis, herpes, or HPV from a vagina as from a penis, “Since these infections can occur both inside the vagina and on the skin surface.” So queers, please take note: being on a vagina-only diet does not a risk-free lifestyle make.
... an important thing to keep in mind when you are deciding whether or not to use protection with a partner. What we can take from this study is that a queer person who encounters penises in their mouth is more likely in general to have contracted an STI than a queer person who doesn't. So if you or your partner fits this description, you might consider taking an extra measure of protection. And if you have multiple partners, it's even more important, because your risk increases with every additional person you add to your sexual network.
If you don't use protection with your partner, you are what is known as "fluid-bonded." This means that you have agreed to share your bodily fluids with each other. And with that agreement, much like the power to shoot webs from your hands, comes great responsibility. You should definitely get tested before doing so — if you don't have health insurance, get on the internet and find your nearest free health clinic. If you're in college, your health center should provide testing services. It's possible to be fluid-bonded to one person while having multiple partners whom you are not fluid-bonded to, but you have an obligation to your fluid-bonded partner to use protection with everyone else. The key here is going to be communication. It's not really fair to the people you are having sex with to have secrets that could put them at risk."source and full story here
8.23.2012
Ang Ikaklit sa Aming Hardin , lez-themed kiddie book is OUT!
remember this post about the first ever children story in the Philippines with lesbian parents in the characters and the theme? many of you expressed that you want to buy once available. well, happy news! the book is OUT! *buti pa sya. ako kaya kelan. hehe.*
Ang Ikaklit sa Aming Hardin
Ang karaniwang pakahulugan sa pamilya ay yaong
binubuo ng ama, ina, at mga anak, na nananahan nang sama-sama. Ito ang
namamayaning depinisyon at kalakhan sa atin ay dito namulat kung kaya
nagmimistulang ito lamang ang natatanging imahen ng pamilya na dapat
sundin. Gayumpaman, hindi maitatanggi ang pag-iral ng iba pang anyo ng
pamilya na labas sa depinisyong ito. Mayroong mga pamilyang isa lang ang
tumatayong magulang, may mga anak na nagmula sa ibang magulang, mayroon
din namang mga batang dalawa ang nanay o tatay, may mga pamilyang
malayo sa isa’t isa, at iba pa. Patunay ang mga ito ng pangangailangang
magluwal ng mas masaklaw na kahulugan ng pamilya. Isang depinisyong
hindi nakatali sa larawang nakasanayan bagkus ay tumatanaw sa esensiya
ng isang tahanang mapagkalinga, mapang-unawa, at ginagabayan ng
pagmamahal.
Maraming anyo ang pamilya. Tulad ng mga bulaklak sa isang halamanan, mayroon itong iba’t ibang itsura, kulay, bango, at laki. Sapagkat ang anumang uri ng pagsasamang nakasandig sa pag-ibig ay dapat kilalanin bilang pamilya. Isa rito ang kuwento ni Ikaklit. Bagaman iba sa trasdisyunal, maituturing na pamilya ang samahang bumibigkis sa kaniya at sa dalawa niyang ina.
Maraming anyo ang pamilya. Tulad ng mga bulaklak sa isang halamanan, mayroon itong iba’t ibang itsura, kulay, bango, at laki. Sapagkat ang anumang uri ng pagsasamang nakasandig sa pag-ibig ay dapat kilalanin bilang pamilya. Isa rito ang kuwento ni Ikaklit. Bagaman iba sa trasdisyunal, maituturing na pamilya ang samahang bumibigkis sa kaniya at sa dalawa niyang ina.
Available in the following bookshops:
IBON BOOKSHOP
#114 Timog Ave.,
Quezon City
(632) 927-7060 |
927-7061 | 927-7062
POPULAR BOOKSTORE
#305 Tomas Morato
Avenue, Quezon City
(632) 372-2162
UP PRESS BOOKSTORE
E. de los Santos
Street
UP Campus Diliman,
Quezon City
(632) 926-6642
MT. CLOUD
Casa Vallejo, Upper
Session Rd., Baguio City
(074) 424-4437
(Simula Agosto 26,
2012)
You can also email publikasyong.twamkittens@gmail.com to get a copy of the book, "Ang Ikaklit sa Aming Hardin."
Book launch is on
September 13, 2012, 3:00-5:00pm,
Claro M. Recto Hall, College of Arts & Literature
UP Diliman.
EVERYONE's invited! :)
Det Neri, author
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8.22.2012
Two women Tie the Knot in Taiwan
while i was busy with my work turnover, THIS happened. =) as the Dutch proverb says, "When a door closes, a window opens." For their case, even though there is no same sex marriage law yet, who says they can't get married if they want to?! truly! LOVE FINDS A WAY. tayo nang magbakasyon sa Taiwan! *let's go visit Taiwan!*
TAOYUAN, Taiwan – Two women tied the knot on Saturday, August 11, in Taiwan’s first same-sex Buddhist wedding, a move rights groups hope will help make the island become the first place in Asia to legalize gay marriage.
Fish Huang and You Ya-ting , who have been together for seven years, exchanged vow and prayer beads instead of rings at a monastery in Taoyuan, northern Taiwan, accompanied by chants from nearly 300 Buddhists.
Shih Chao-hwei, a Buddhist master and university professor, offered to perform the ceremony herself after the couple approached her to ask if their faith condemned homosexuality.
“We are witnessing history. The two women are willing to stand out and fight for their fate… to overcome social discrimination,” said Shih, a well-known advocate for social justice.
You Ya-ting, left, and her partner Huang Mei-yu stamp their names in front of a statue of Buddha in the prayer hall as they are married in the first Taiwan same sex Buddhist ceremonial wedding in Taoyuan, Taiwan, Saturday, Aug. 11, 2012. Taiwan still does not legally recognize same sex marriage.
“Some people might find it astounding [a woman performing the ceremony] but Buddhism does not engage in ideological struggles and I am used to strange looks from my own experience in the social movement,” she said.
The couple’s parents were notably absent from the ceremony, in an indication of the pressure facing some homosexuals and their families.
“We hope with the master’s support, the wedding will change many people’s perspective even though it is not legally binding,” said the social worker. “We hope the government can legalise same-sex marriage soon.”
"We decided to get married last year," Huang told Agence France Presse July 11, 2012.
“After being together for six years, we feel we need to make a life-long commitment to each other.”
“After being together for six years, we feel we need to make a life-long commitment to each other.”
and they did!
Lesbian couple celebrate Taiwan's first Buddhist same-sex wedding
TAOYUAN, Taiwan – Two women tied the knot on Saturday, August 11, in Taiwan’s first same-sex Buddhist wedding, a move rights groups hope will help make the island become the first place in Asia to legalize gay marriage.
Fish Huang and You Ya-ting , who have been together for seven years, exchanged vow and prayer beads instead of rings at a monastery in Taoyuan, northern Taiwan, accompanied by chants from nearly 300 Buddhists.
Shih Chao-hwei, a Buddhist master and university professor, offered to perform the ceremony herself after the couple approached her to ask if their faith condemned homosexuality.
“We are witnessing history. The two women are willing to stand out and fight for their fate… to overcome social discrimination,” said Shih, a well-known advocate for social justice.
You Ya-ting, left, and her partner Huang Mei-yu stamp their names in front of a statue of Buddha in the prayer hall as they are married in the first Taiwan same sex Buddhist ceremonial wedding in Taoyuan, Taiwan, Saturday, Aug. 11, 2012. Taiwan still does not legally recognize same sex marriage.
“Some people might find it astounding [a woman performing the ceremony] but Buddhism does not engage in ideological struggles and I am used to strange looks from my own experience in the social movement,” she said.
colorful as their love :)
The couple’s parents were notably absent from the ceremony, in an indication of the pressure facing some homosexuals and their families.
“Our parents initially agreed to attend and they regret that they
couldn’t be here. We understand that people have different acceptance of
media exposure and we want to give them more space,” Huang said shortly
before the wedding.
“We hope with the master’s support, the wedding will change many people’s perspective even though it is not legally binding,” said the social worker. “We hope the government can legalise same-sex marriage soon.”
Taiwan is one of the most culturally liberal societies in East Asia,
and gay and lesbian groups have been urging the government for years to
make same-sex unions legal.
Aiming to create awareness about the issue, about 80 lesbian couples
tied the knot last year in Taiwan’s biggest same-sex wedding party,
attracting about 1,000 friends, relatives and curious onlookers.
Fish Huang told the Taipei Times last month: 'We are not only doing it for ourselves, but also for other gays and lesbians.'
The first public gay marriage in Taiwan took place in 1996 but this is the first known Buddhist wedding.
Gay rights groups are pushing for President Ma Ying-jeou to legislate for same-sex marriage and to allow gay couples to adopt before his term ends in 2016.
sources
http://www.freemalaysiatoday.com/category/world/2012/07/11/taiwan-to-stage-1st-same-sex-buddhist-wedding/
http://www.pinas.net/2012/08/taiwan-couple-in-same-sex-buddhist-wedding/
http://www.taiwanholidays.com.au/taiwans-first-gay-guddhist-wedding
http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-2186983/Lesbian-couple-celebrate-Taiwans-Buddhist-sex-wedding.html
Video clips
http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-2186983/Lesbian-couple-celebrate-Taiwans-Buddhist-sex-wedding.html
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5jwsm-Z6Ka4
The first public gay marriage in Taiwan took place in 1996 but this is the first known Buddhist wedding.
Gay rights groups are pushing for President Ma Ying-jeou to legislate for same-sex marriage and to allow gay couples to adopt before his term ends in 2016.
sources
http://www.freemalaysiatoday.com/category/world/2012/07/11/taiwan-to-stage-1st-same-sex-buddhist-wedding/
http://www.pinas.net/2012/08/taiwan-couple-in-same-sex-buddhist-wedding/
http://www.taiwanholidays.com.au/taiwans-first-gay-guddhist-wedding
http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-2186983/Lesbian-couple-celebrate-Taiwans-Buddhist-sex-wedding.html
Video clips
http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-2186983/Lesbian-couple-celebrate-Taiwans-Buddhist-sex-wedding.html
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5jwsm-Z6Ka4
Labels:
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8.12.2012
Lesbians/Bi Pro Athletes
with the oLympics fever in London, sharing some of the best and the famous kickass lesbians/bi athletes to make us prouder and more importantly, inspired. =)
Megan Rapinoe
Though she has been openly gay to her family and teammates for quite some time, she candidly spoke about her sexuality during an interview with Out: "For the record: I am gay," she told the gay magazine.
"To be honest, I've been thinking about it for a while, trying to find a time that works. Now leading up to the Olympics, people want to get personal stories," she says. "Our team in general is in a position where people look up to us and kids look up to us. I embrace that and I think I have a huge LGBT following. I think it's pretty cool, the opportunity that I have, especially in sports. There's really not that many out athletes. It's important to be out and to live my life that way.
"It's about standing up and being counted and saying you're proud of who you are."
Rapinoe, who also plays for the Seattle Sounders of the Major League Soccer women's division, told USA Today she has been getting "positive" feedback after her announcement.
"It's been good," she says. "It's all been extremely positive, which makes me really happy."
Rapinoe came out on the same day Anderson Cooper did as well in a letter that was published by the Daily Beast's Andrew Sullivan.
Martina Navratilova
The Prague-born tennis pro, who came out as bisexual in 1981, is credited with having "expanded the dialogue on issues of gender and sexuality in sports," according to ESPN.
"Martina was the first legitimate superstar who literally came out while she was a superstar," Donna Lopiano, executive director of the Women's Sports Foundation, said. "She exploded the barrier by putting it on the table. She basically said this part of my life doesn't have anything to do with me as a tennis player. Judge me for who I am."
At the age of 55 and after a string of tempestuous love affairs, Martina Navratilova has finally embraced motherhood. She has become a parent to her girlfriend’s two young daughters, an arrangement she referred to as her ‘instantaneous family’.
The gay tennis star, who won Wimbledon a record nine times, has spoken of her happiness and admitted that motherhood has changed her life.
Miss Navratilova has been in a relationship with former Russian beauty queen Julia Lemigova, 41, since 2006, and the couple were first pictured together in 2009.
Golf Career: Jones has won 13 Ladies Professional Golf Association (LPGA) titles. She has been on the tour since 1982. She had four top-three finishes in 2002. In 2003 she won the Asahi Ryokuken International Championship at Mount Vintage.
On Being a Lesbian: Rosie said in her letter to the New York Times, "I've been very comfortable with the fact that I'm gay. I came out to my family when I was 19, and my friends and associates on the Tour are all aware that I am gay."
On the Risks of Coming Out: Rosie said, "As any gay person can tell you, coming out involves making yourself incredibly vulnerable. Every gay person knows other gay people who have been rejected by family or friends."
On Coming out at Age 44: Rosie came out at age 44 after a long and successful career in the LPGA. For those who would criticize her for coming out so late, she says, "I'm sure people will criticize me for coming out so late. To them, I say simply, I wasn't ready until now. If the gay-rights movement is about anything, it should be about letting people come out on their own timetable and on their own terms."
Professional Kickass Athletes and they're Lesbians/Bisexual
Megan Rapinoe
U.S. women's soccer team midfielder Megan Rapinoe
publicly announced that she is a lesbian for the first time on Monday,
less than a month before the London Olympic Games.
Rapinoe, 27, who is best known for her stellar athletic skills and
upbeat personality, wants her coming out story to empower LGBT people, USA Today reported.Though she has been openly gay to her family and teammates for quite some time, she candidly spoke about her sexuality during an interview with Out: "For the record: I am gay," she told the gay magazine.
"To be honest, I've been thinking about it for a while, trying to find a time that works. Now leading up to the Olympics, people want to get personal stories," she says. "Our team in general is in a position where people look up to us and kids look up to us. I embrace that and I think I have a huge LGBT following. I think it's pretty cool, the opportunity that I have, especially in sports. There's really not that many out athletes. It's important to be out and to live my life that way.
"It's about standing up and being counted and saying you're proud of who you are."
Rapinoe, who also plays for the Seattle Sounders of the Major League Soccer women's division, told USA Today she has been getting "positive" feedback after her announcement.
"It's been good," she says. "It's all been extremely positive, which makes me really happy."
Rapinoe came out on the same day Anderson Cooper did as well in a letter that was published by the Daily Beast's Andrew Sullivan.
Martina Navratilova
The Prague-born tennis pro, who came out as bisexual in 1981, is credited with having "expanded the dialogue on issues of gender and sexuality in sports," according to ESPN.
"Martina was the first legitimate superstar who literally came out while she was a superstar," Donna Lopiano, executive director of the Women's Sports Foundation, said. "She exploded the barrier by putting it on the table. She basically said this part of my life doesn't have anything to do with me as a tennis player. Judge me for who I am."
At the age of 55 and after a string of tempestuous love affairs, Martina Navratilova has finally embraced motherhood. She has become a parent to her girlfriend’s two young daughters, an arrangement she referred to as her ‘instantaneous family’.
The gay tennis star, who won Wimbledon a record nine times, has spoken of her happiness and admitted that motherhood has changed her life.
Miss Navratilova has been in a relationship with former Russian beauty queen Julia Lemigova, 41, since 2006, and the couple were first pictured together in 2009.
Billie Jean King
Billie Jean King won her first championship at age 15. She won 12 Grand
Slam singles titles, 14 Grand Slam women’s doubles titles, and 11 Grand
Slam mixed doubles titles. She is the first woman to earn more than
$100,00 from any sport. She was ranked No. 1 in the world five years.
Billie Jean King had married her college sweetheart Larry King. As her
career grew, the two remained married, but Billie began having affairs
with women. In 1981 an ex-lover outed Billie Jean King and filed a
palimony suit. Billie Jean King, afraid of losing her tennis
endorsements and her career called the affair a "mistake" and stayed
deep in the closet. Even with that admission, Billie Jean King lost
almost all her commercial sponsors.
In 1998, Billie Jean King finally came all the way out of the closet. In 2000 she was the coach of the US Women’s tennis team. She was the first open lesbian to coach an Olympic team.
At 64, this lesbian icon is still at it and went to the conservative Muslim sheikdom of Qatar to promote gender equality in sport during the women’s tennis tour”s year-end championships won Sunday by Venus Williams.
Billie Jean told the Associated Press that a shift toward gender parity in sport is a gradual process that requires respect for all cultures and religions: "Human rights is very important. But it is going to take generations to have a shift. Things do not happen quickly, but we have to start someplace."
Later in her life King said this concerning the personal cost of concealing her sexuality for so many years,
"I wanted to tell the truth but my parents were homophobic and I was in the closet. As well as that, I had people tell me that if I talked about what I was going through, it would be the end of the women’s tour. I couldn’t get a closet deep enough. I’ve got a homophobic family, a tour that will die if I come out, the world is homophobic and, yeah, I was homophobic. If you speak with gays, bisexuals, lesbians and transgenders, you will find a lot of homophobia because of the way we all grew up. One of my big goals was always to be honest with my parents and I couldn’t be for a long time. I tried to bring up the subject but felt I couldn’t. My mother would say, "We’re not talking about things like that", and I was pretty easily stopped because I was reluctant anyway. I ended up with an eating disorder that came from trying to numb myself from my feelings. I needed to surrender far sooner than I did. At the age of 51, I was finally able to talk about it properly with my parents and no longer did I have to measure my words with them. That was a turning point for me as it meant I didn’t have regrets any more."
On August 12, 2009, King was awarded the Presidential Medal of Freedom by President Barack Obama for her work advocating for the rights of women and the lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgendered community. "This is a chance for me — and for the United States of America — to say thank you to some of the finest citizens of this country and of all countries," President Obama said.
Billie Jean told the Associated Press that a shift toward gender parity in sport is a gradual process that requires respect for all cultures and religions: "Human rights is very important. But it is going to take generations to have a shift. Things do not happen quickly, but we have to start someplace."
Later in her life King said this concerning the personal cost of concealing her sexuality for so many years,
"I wanted to tell the truth but my parents were homophobic and I was in the closet. As well as that, I had people tell me that if I talked about what I was going through, it would be the end of the women’s tour. I couldn’t get a closet deep enough. I’ve got a homophobic family, a tour that will die if I come out, the world is homophobic and, yeah, I was homophobic. If you speak with gays, bisexuals, lesbians and transgenders, you will find a lot of homophobia because of the way we all grew up. One of my big goals was always to be honest with my parents and I couldn’t be for a long time. I tried to bring up the subject but felt I couldn’t. My mother would say, "We’re not talking about things like that", and I was pretty easily stopped because I was reluctant anyway. I ended up with an eating disorder that came from trying to numb myself from my feelings. I needed to surrender far sooner than I did. At the age of 51, I was finally able to talk about it properly with my parents and no longer did I have to measure my words with them. That was a turning point for me as it meant I didn’t have regrets any more."
On August 12, 2009, King was awarded the Presidential Medal of Freedom by President Barack Obama for her work advocating for the rights of women and the lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgendered community. "This is a chance for me — and for the United States of America — to say thank you to some of the finest citizens of this country and of all countries," President Obama said.
Sarah Vaillancourt
As a freshman at Harvard, Sarah Vaillancourt simply decided to stop hiding her sexual orientation.
Whenever the subject of dating or relationships arose, she spoke frankly.
"If they weren't going to accept me on the team," she said, "I wasn't going to stay."
It helped that Vaillancourt quickly established herself among the top scorers on her college hockey squad and a rising star for Team Canada back home in Quebec. But she knew that as a lesbian, she would encounter challenges different from those facing gay male athletes.
On the plus side, she grew up with role models such as Billie Jean King and Martina Navratilova in tennis, Sheryl Swoopes in basketball and Rosie Jones in golf. Fans have come to expect a certain percentage of gays in women's sports.
This expectation also counts as a negative. In some circles, athletic women are automatically presumed gay, which can spark resentment among straight athletes.
Vaillancourt, so candid at Harvard, acknowledges she is more cautious around the Canadian national team.
"They don't want me to talk about it so much because if one person comes out, everyone's [going to be labeled] a lesbian," she said. "My whole team is not lesbian."
"If they weren't going to accept me on the team," she said, "I wasn't going to stay."
It helped that Vaillancourt quickly established herself among the top scorers on her college hockey squad and a rising star for Team Canada back home in Quebec. But she knew that as a lesbian, she would encounter challenges different from those facing gay male athletes.
On the plus side, she grew up with role models such as Billie Jean King and Martina Navratilova in tennis, Sheryl Swoopes in basketball and Rosie Jones in golf. Fans have come to expect a certain percentage of gays in women's sports.
This expectation also counts as a negative. In some circles, athletic women are automatically presumed gay, which can spark resentment among straight athletes.
Vaillancourt, so candid at Harvard, acknowledges she is more cautious around the Canadian national team.
"They don't want me to talk about it so much because if one person comes out, everyone's [going to be labeled] a lesbian," she said. "My whole team is not lesbian."
Rosie Jones
In a letter to the New York Times, Rosie Jones admitted she is a lesbian on March 21, 2004, in part to accept a sponorship from Olivia, a lesbian music and travel agency.
Golf Career: Jones has won 13 Ladies Professional Golf Association (LPGA) titles. She has been on the tour since 1982. She had four top-three finishes in 2002. In 2003 she won the Asahi Ryokuken International Championship at Mount Vintage.
On Being a Lesbian: Rosie said in her letter to the New York Times, "I've been very comfortable with the fact that I'm gay. I came out to my family when I was 19, and my friends and associates on the Tour are all aware that I am gay."
On the Risks of Coming Out: Rosie said, "As any gay person can tell you, coming out involves making yourself incredibly vulnerable. Every gay person knows other gay people who have been rejected by family or friends."
On Coming out at Age 44: Rosie came out at age 44 after a long and successful career in the LPGA. For those who would criticize her for coming out so late, she says, "I'm sure people will criticize me for coming out so late. To them, I say simply, I wasn't ready until now. If the gay-rights movement is about anything, it should be about letting people come out on their own timetable and on their own terms."
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8.09.2012
too stupid
something really stupid to distract me from the misery that is typhoon. oh wait, yeah, there is no typhoon! dang! just torrential rains brought about by either climate change or what the more stupid people assume as God's wrath/disapproval of RH Bill.
Matt Bomer Is Too Gay For 'Fifty Shades Of Grey,' Says Bret Easton Ellis
8.04.2012
Ink Exclusive Party
an interesting kind of exclusive party :)
- SHOW YOUR INK! -
Exclusive Dance Party for WOMEN
AUGUST 4, 9:00pm Saturday (tonight!)
at KYSS Lounge Bar
Makati Avenue corner General Luna Streets, Makati City
(beside A-Venue Mall parking lot)
Featuring:
The only TATTOO showcase is here!
Get ready to flair...
Get ready to flair...
- SHOW YOUR INK! -
Exclusive Dance Party for WOMEN
AUGUST 4, 9:00pm Saturday (tonight!)
at KYSS Lounge Bar
Makati Avenue corner General Luna Streets, Makati City
(beside A-Venue Mall parking lot)
Featuring:
- OPEN BAR from 9pm to 10pm only!(Free Flowing Drinks)
- Gorgeous and sexy ledge dancers
- LIVE tattoo art from the coolest artist ANA KNICOLAI MENDOZA.
- Get ready to groove to the beats and sound of DJ PHIL
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7.22.2012
LGBT in Cinemalaya 2012
Hello! Whattarainyweek! :)
yesterday i tried my best to go despite the upsetting weather. but fear of infection from flood, fear of flu from getting rained down, fear of being late from traffic/not getting a ride prevented me from going. so you can call me fearsome firewomyn. sigh.
today i braved the typhoon and flood, and was able to watch Cinemalaya finally! seen Diablo, Aparisyon and Requieme. will watch some more next weekend. :)
with lgbt theme:
- Requieme - about a young transgender (New Breed)
- Bwakaw - about an old gay man (Director's Cut)
- Intoy Syokoy ng Kalye Marino - well, it's about diving for tahong/mussels. certainly there's a flesh of lesbian in it (metaphorically). lol!
with lgbt cast
- Posas - John Lapus
- Requieme - Anthony Falcon, Roeder Camañag. etc.
- Diablo - Roeder Camañag
- Bwakaw - Joey Paras, Soxie Topacio, Eddie Garcia (he admitted in an interview that he had sexual experience with a man in his youth)
films with cast members who played LGBT roles in the past
- Aparisyon - Mylene Dizon (lesbian in Rome and Juliet)
- Ang Katiwala - Dennis Trillo (transgender in Aishite Imasu 1941: Mahal Kita)
- Mga Mumunting Lihim - Judy Ann Santos (bisexual in Sabel)
- Requieme - Sharmaine Buencamino (lesbian in Niño)
films i recommend:
- Aparisyon - superb visuals and acting!
- Requieme - positive depiction of a loving gay/transgender relationship and a gay man's /transgender's compassion. very good story.
- Bwakaw - funny trailer. fan of eddie garcia and joey paras. will watch next week
- Mga Mumunting Lihim - interesting plot. want to see how a full mainstream cast fares in Indie.
- Ang Nawawala - music as backdrop, fast-paced in the mold of mtv. seems fun.
- Intoy Syokoy ng Kalye Marino - am a fan of jm de guzman (from Ang Babae sa Septic Tank and Pangarap Lang Kita mtv). and for obvious reason, tahong/mussels always interest me. :D
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All the full length film entries in Cinemalaya with background & their gala screening schedule
OROS by Paul Sta. Ana
Gala: July 23, Mon 6:15PM at Tanghalang Nicanor Abelardo (CCP Main Theatre)
What’s It About: The owner of a funeral parlor sells a cadaver to a saklaan kasero named Makoy. He and his brother, Abet, then stage a three-week-long fake wake to make a profit.
Who’s Starring: Kristoffer King, Tanya Gomez and Kristofer Martin
Who’s Directing: Paul Sta. Ana (Marino and Huling Pasada; he also wrote award-winning screenplays such as Mayohan and Bisperas)
Why We’re Excited: It’s always fun to watch witty takes on Pinoy culture.
BWAKAW by Jun Robles Lana
Gala: July 23, Mon 9:00PM at Tanghalang Nicanor Abelardo (CCP Main Theatre)
Gala: July 23, Mon 9:00PM at Tanghalang Nicanor Abelardo (CCP Main Theatre)
What’s It About: An aging, lonely gay man waits out
the twilight of his life. He even sleeps in his own coffin—symbolism and
laughs in one scene? We'll take it! Will heartwarming redemption and
pathos spring from the cute little dog that he adopts?
Who’s Starring: Eddie Garcia, Rez Cortez, Gardo
Versoza, Joey Paras, Allan Paule, Armida Siguion-Reyna, Beverly Salvejo,
Soxie Topacio, Luz Valdez
Who’s Directing: Jun Lana (the youngest Palanca Hall of Fame awardee and screenwriter of Jose Rizal and Muro Ami)
Why We’re Excited: The film promises to juggle some heavy narrative archetypes with a lighthearted, appealing touch.
KALAYAAN by Adolfo B. Alix Jr.
Gala: July 24, Tue 6:15PM at Tanghalang Nicanor Abelardo (CCP Main Theatre)
Gala: July 24, Tue 6:15PM at Tanghalang Nicanor Abelardo (CCP Main Theatre)
What’s It About: We're certain that the title
carries more metaphorical weight, but at face value, the movie is named
after the far-off Kalayaan islands in Palawan, where a group of soldiers
must grapple with the psychological effects of loneliness and
isolation.
Who’s Starring: Ananda Everingham, Luis Alandy, Zanjoe Marudo, Rocky Salumbides, Angela Bayani
Who’s Directing: Adolfo Alix Jr. (Manila, Donsol, Chassis, Kadin, screenwriter for Ang Munting Tinig)
Why We’re Excited: As evidenced by the Piolo Pascual-starrer Manila, Adolfo Alix Jr. has a way of coaxing great performances out of beefcake stars who play roles in films named after places.
Who’s Starring: Ananda Everingham, Luis Alandy, Zanjoe Marudo, Rocky Salumbides, Angela Bayani
Who’s Directing: Adolfo Alix Jr. (Manila, Donsol, Chassis, Kadin, screenwriter for Ang Munting Tinig)
Why We’re Excited: As evidenced by the Piolo Pascual-starrer Manila, Adolfo Alix Jr. has a way of coaxing great performances out of beefcake stars who play roles in films named after places.
SANTA NIñA by Emmanuel Quindo Palo
Gala: July 24, Tue 9:00PM at Tanghalang Nicanor Abelardo (CCP Main Theatre)
Gala: July 24, Tue 9:00PM at Tanghalang Nicanor Abelardo (CCP Main Theatre)
What’s It About: The beguiling video teasers don't say much, but Santa Nina
tells the story of a father whose child is buried in a lahar flow in
Bacolor back in 1995. Fast-forward to ten years later: the
perfectly-preserved remains of the child are uncovered, and the father
begins a campaign to elevate his kid to sainthood.
Who’s Starring: Coco Martin, Alessandra de Rossi,
Anita Linda, Angel Aquino, Irma Adlawan, Nanding Josef, Lui Manansala,
Joe Gruta, Bea Garcia, Dax Alejandro, Rie Batingana
Who’s Directing: Emmanuel Q. Palo (this is his first feature-length film)
Why We’re Excited: It's no secret that we're partial
to Coco Martin's talent around here...especially when he's about to
tackle meaty issues like faith and salvation.
ANG KATIWALA by Aloy Adlawan
Gala: July 25, Wed 6:15PM at Tanghalang Nicanor Abelardo (CCP Main Theatre)
Gala: July 25, Wed 6:15PM at Tanghalang Nicanor Abelardo (CCP Main Theatre)
What’s It About: Ruben takes on the job as a
caretaker of an abandoned property in Quezon City which was once owned
by a prominent figure in the Philippines. When a reporter interviews him
about the house’s history, Ruben is shamed, realizing he knows nothing
about the owner. With newfound vigor, he begins reading up on the man
and his fascination borders on obsession. So much so that his friend,
Gimo, even jokes that he is being possessed by the soul of his new hero.
Who’s Starring: Dennis Trillo, Ronnie Lazaro,
Angelina Canapi, Althea Vega, Miggs Cuaderno, Neri Naig, Ernie Zarate,
Shyr Valdez, Richard Manabat, Louella de Cordova, Aileen Lota, and Dado
Jose
Who’s Directing: Aloy Adlawan (Room Boy, Signos)
Why We’re Excited: Ang Katiwala was based
on a real-life predicament when a property with seemingly high
historical value was put on the market. We want to see how the
award-winning director jazzed it up for film.
MGA MUMUNTING LIHIM by Jose Javier Reyes
Gala: July 25, Wed 9:00PM at Tanghalang Nicanor Abelardo (CCP Main Theatre)
Gala: July 25, Wed 9:00PM at Tanghalang Nicanor Abelardo (CCP Main Theatre)
What’s It About: Let's try this in over-dramatic Hollywood teaser style: Four best friends. One death. A threatened friendship.
Who’s Starring: Judy Ann Santos, Iza Calzado, Janice de Belen, Agot Isidro
Who’s Directing: Jose Javier Reyes (Batang PX, Kasal Kasali Kasalo)
Why We’re Excited: Four heavyweight actresses in one indie film. Need we say any more?
Who’s Starring: Judy Ann Santos, Iza Calzado, Janice de Belen, Agot Isidro
Who’s Directing: Jose Javier Reyes (Batang PX, Kasal Kasali Kasalo)
Why We’re Excited: Four heavyweight actresses in one indie film. Need we say any more?
APARISYON by Vincent Sandoval
Gala: July 26, Thu 6:15PM at Tanghalang Nicanor Abelardo (CCP Main Theatre)
What’s It About: The peace at the Adoration
Monastery is disrupted when an extern nun, Remy, learns that her
left-leaning brother has gone missing. Despite failing to obtain a leave
of absence from the Mother Superior, Remy smuggles a pocket radio into
the cloisters in her desperation to listen to the news. Lourdes, a
novice nun, sympathizes with Remy, and volunteers to be an extern
herself. Together, they start attending meetings of families with
missing relatives. As the pair heads back to the monastery after one
clandestine gathering, they are accosted by men and Lourdes is
discovered the next day, hurt and sexually abused. The incident shocks
the monastery and stirs political consciousness among the nuns.
Who’s Starring: Mylene Dizon, Jodi Sta. Maria, Fides Cuyogan-Asencio, Racquel Villavicencio, Rustica Carpio
Who’s Directing: Vincent Sandoval (Señorita)
Why We’re Excited: Director Vincent Sandoval revealed during a press conference that Aparisyon was a very visual film. “Its most arresting and powerful scenes are its quietest,” he said, hinting at a four-minute scene where Dizon and Sta. Maria had a powerful, emotional exchange sans dialogue.
Who’s Starring: Mylene Dizon, Jodi Sta. Maria, Fides Cuyogan-Asencio, Racquel Villavicencio, Rustica Carpio
Who’s Directing: Vincent Sandoval (Señorita)
Why We’re Excited: Director Vincent Sandoval revealed during a press conference that Aparisyon was a very visual film. “Its most arresting and powerful scenes are its quietest,” he said, hinting at a four-minute scene where Dizon and Sta. Maria had a powerful, emotional exchange sans dialogue.
MGA DAYO by Julius Sotomayor Cena
Gala: July 27, Fri 6:15PM at Tanghalang Nicanor Abelardo (CCP Main Theatre)
What’s It About: Three separate lives meet in this
insightful drama set during Thanksgiving in Guam. A newspaper
photographer consents to a “green card marriage,” a journalist tries to
repair her relationship with her American husband, and a hotel
housekeeper brings her ailing 88-year-old mother to the States, only to
struggle to send her back to the Philippines—three stories about
decisions, sacrifices, and finding home.
Who’s Starring: Sue Prado, Olga Natividad, Janela Carrera
Who’s Directing: Julius Sotomayor-Cena (Lutrina, Dito Sa Lupa)
Why We’re Excited: This is the first Cinemalaya entry to be filmed overseas!
THE ANIMALS by Gino M. Santos
Gala: July 27, Fri 9:00PM at Tanghalang Nicanor Abelardo (CCP Main Theatre)
What’s It About: A day in the life of the
ultra-privileged, when school is out and the party begins. The title's
not just for show, too; we fully expect the three characters—Jake,
Trina, and Alex—to take a walk on the wild side before the party winds
down.
Who’s Starring: Albie Casiño, Patrick Sugui, Dawn Balagot, Issa Litton, Micah Cabral, Vangie Martelle, John Wayne Sace, Bryan Homecillo, Carlo Cruz, Andrew Felix
Who’s Directing: Gino M. Santos (this is his first feature-length film)
Why We’re Excited: Pinoy indie film is sometimes unfairly skewered as "poverty porn"—an affectation that forms the meat of last year's Cinemalaya darling Ang Babae sa Septic Tank—and we're curious to see how newcomer Gino Santos flips the coin over to the hyper-affluent. Will he go for a skewering...or sympathy?
Who’s Starring: Albie Casiño, Patrick Sugui, Dawn Balagot, Issa Litton, Micah Cabral, Vangie Martelle, John Wayne Sace, Bryan Homecillo, Carlo Cruz, Andrew Felix
Who’s Directing: Gino M. Santos (this is his first feature-length film)
Why We’re Excited: Pinoy indie film is sometimes unfairly skewered as "poverty porn"—an affectation that forms the meat of last year's Cinemalaya darling Ang Babae sa Septic Tank—and we're curious to see how newcomer Gino Santos flips the coin over to the hyper-affluent. Will he go for a skewering...or sympathy?
past galas
ANG NAWAWALA by Marie Jamora
July 21, Sat 3:30PM at Tanghalang Nicanor Abelardo (CCP Main Theatre)
What’s It About: This film revolves around Gibson
Bonifacio, a 20-year-old returning to Manila after studying abroad.
While adjusting to his life back home, he reconnects with his childhood
best friend and they begin a romance. In the end, Bonifacio revives his
relationship with his family and friends while discovering himself along
the way.
Who’s Starring: Dominic Roco, Felix Roco, Annicka
Dolonius, Alchris Galura, Mercedes Cabral, Kelvin Yu, Jenny Jamora, Marc
Abaya, Sabrina Man, Boboy Garrovillo, and Dawn Zulueta
Who’s Directing: Marie Jamora (her resume includes several music videos and the first season of Project Runway Philippines)
Why We’re Excited: Not only is this Marie Jamora’s (much-anticipated) first full-length film, it also gives us a peek into the Pinoy music scene.
INTOY SYOKOY NG KALYE MARINO by Lemuel Lorca
July 21, Sat 6:15PM at Tanghalang Nicanor Abelardo (CCP Main Theatre)
July 21, Sat 6:15PM at Tanghalang Nicanor Abelardo (CCP Main Theatre)
What’s It About: Adapted from the eponymous Palanca-winning short story by Eros Atalia, Intoy Syokoy ng Kalye Marino is the love story between a tahong diver (the best in town) and his lifelong love, a prostitute named Doray Langaw.
Who’s Starring: JM de Guzman, LJ Reyes, and Joross Gamboa
Who’s Directing: Lemuel Lorca
Why We’re Excited: The Batang Ama star confessed that diving in the murky waters of Sangley Point was a difficult experience. “Mabaho talaga... (may lumulutang na) napkin, used napkin. (May mga dumi ng tao) hindi ko na nakikita usually 'yon, pero naamoy ko at nalasahan...” recalled de Guzman in a PEP.ph interview. We just want to check if the sacrifice was worth it.
KAMERA OBSKURA by Raymond Red
July 21, Sat 9:00PM at Tanghalang Nicanor Abelardo (CCP Main Theatre)
July 21, Sat 9:00PM at Tanghalang Nicanor Abelardo (CCP Main Theatre)
What’s It About: A purported "long-lost film from the archives of Philippine cinema", Kamera Obskura is
a legendary director's hallucinatory film-within-a-film imagining of
what a Filipino expressionist film of the silent era would be like.
Who’s Starring: Pen Medina, Joel Torre, Nanding Josef, Ping Medina, Lou Veloso
Who’s Directing: Raymond Red (Sakay, Bangin)
Why We’re Excited: You can't get any more ambitious in this year's Cinemalaya than this flick. Let's quote the director himself (courtesy of The Philippine Star) on what his aim was for Kamera Obskura: "To conjure up a film from a period that did not really exist in Philippine cinema's historical cultural heritage."
DIABLO by Mes de Duzman
July 22, Sun 12:45PM at Tanghalang Nicanor Abelardo (CCP Main Theatre)
July 22, Sun 12:45PM at Tanghalang Nicanor Abelardo (CCP Main Theatre)
What’s It About: So, unfortunately, we can't find any video trailer for Diablo
on the Internet (if you know of any, please give us a tip in the
comments). But the premise is intriguing enough: a long-suffering
matriarch, five wastrel sons, the fatal stabbing of one of the said
sons, and the crackling, emotional family reunion that's sure to follow.
Who’s Starring: Ama Quiambao, Carlo Aquino, Althea Vega, Jose Escobedo, Arnold Reyes, Roeder Camañag, Fredie dela Cruz
Who’s Directing: Mes De Guzman (short film Batang Trapo and feature The Road to Kalimugtong)
Why We’re Excited: Mes De Guzman's independent,
Nueva Vizcaya-based work ethic has paid off in the past: his past films
have nabbed grand prizes in festivals in Africa, Europe, and North
America.
REQUIEME! by Loy Arcenas
July 22, Sun 6:15PM at Tanghalang Nicanor Abelardo (CCP Main Theatre)
July 22, Sun 6:15PM at Tanghalang Nicanor Abelardo (CCP Main Theatre)
What’s It’s About: Swanie, a barangay chair and
distant relative of a killer, attempts to curry political favor by
staging a wake for her notorious kin. Meanwhile, miles away, her son
tries to give his neighbor a proper funeral. Still, in another seemingly
unrelated circumstance, an estranged mother and son portray their own
dealing with “death”—and in a very unusual way. The three stories
intertwine to give a showcase of Pinoy culture and our penchant for
turning funerals into a fiesta.
Who’s Starring: Shamaine Centenera Buencamino, Rez
Cortez, Anthony Falcon, Paul Jake Paule, Renner Concepcion, Garry Lim,
Angelita Raymundo, Skyzx Labastilla, Jelson Bay, Roli Inocencio, Lila
Cuntapay, Antonette Garcia, Ces Aldaba and Lou Veloso
Who’s Directing: Loy Arcenas (Niño)
Why We’re Excited: Arcenas’ first attempt with Niño last year was brilliant so we have very high hopes for his second film.
POSAS by Lawrence Fajardo
July 22, Sun 9:00PM at Tanghalang Nicanor Abelardo (CCP Main Theatre)
July 22, Sun 9:00PM at Tanghalang Nicanor Abelardo (CCP Main Theatre)
What’s It About: We don't mean to be facetious, but
it seems strangely appropriate that a director named "Law" is tackling
this story about a petty thief caught by the police—and by a
downward-spiraling web of torture, corruption, and bureaucracy.
Who’s Starring: Nico Antonio, Bangs Garcia, John Lapus, Susan Africa, and Art Acuna
Who’s Directing: Law Fajardo (Amok)
Why We’re Excited: The waterboard torture scene of
star Nico Antonio? It's 100% real. The dedication of the cast and crew
seems to have paid off...This film entry was shortlisted in the Un
Certain Regard category of the famed Cannes Film Festival.
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Bret Easton Ellis
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Any actor in their right mind would TURN DOWN an offered role to be in this PRONO! Especially when it's based off a poorly written fan fiction to begin with...- Rachelsniff
By the way Neil Patrick Harris is gay in real life but plays an excellent womanizer on How I Met Your Mother, so maybe it's about the actor's skills and not orientation. - kwyang
On the other hand - comments like this are the obvious reason why so many performers stay closeted. Shameful.
But - still - any decent actor should be relieved to not having anything to do with this book - although I suspect the money offered will be too high to turn down. - waitingforlifeafterbush
His comments, and the twisted explanations they prompted, are too weird and laughable to even go after him. Obviously, someone forgot to tell him that the actors in movies are acting...that's why they are actors and some are better at their craft than others. - tippisheadrun
I had no idea he was gay before reading this article. There's nothing gay about his character unless you generalize a sharp dresser and connoisseur of the finer things in life as "gay". I never saw him with a woman on screen and thought "That dude likes dudes."
In other words, it's BEE's problem, not MB's.
Unfortunately, casting directors and studio execs expect BEE's obsession to be the standard reaction to casting a gay man in a straight role, particularly a leading role. This is one of the reasons many actors choose not to come out -- and one of the reasons we should laud the courage of those who do. - CBLoughry