12.22.2011

2 US Navy women share kiss in public for the first time

breaking my blog hiatus to share this very important must-post awesome news. =) whattamerrykissychristmas!



Petty Officer 2nd Class Marissa Gaeta, left, kisses her girlfriend of two years, Petty Officer 3rd Class Citlalic Snell at Joint Expeditionary Base Little Creek in Virginia Beach, Va., Wednesday, Dec. 22, 2011 after Gaeta's ship returned from 80 days at sea. (Brian J. Clark,AP Photo/The Virginian-Pilot)


(AP) VIRGINIA BEACH, Virginia - A Navy tradition caught up with the repeal of the U.S. military's "don't ask, don't tell" rule on Wednesday when two women sailors became the first to share the coveted "first kiss" on the pier after one of them returned from 80 days at sea.

Petty Officer 2nd Class Marissa Gaeta of Placerville, California, descended from the USS Oak Hill amphibious landing ship and shared a quick kiss in the rain with her partner, Petty Officer 3rd Class Citlalic Snell of Los Angeles.

Gaeta, 23, wore her Navy dress uniform while Snell, 22, wore a black leather jacket, scarf and blue jeans. The crowd screamed and waved flags around them.

"It's something new, that's for sure," Gaeta told reporters after the kiss. "It's nice to be able to be myself. It's been a long time coming."

For the historical significance of the kiss, there was little to differentiate it from countless others when a Navy ship pulls into its home port following a deployment. Neither the Navy nor the couple tried to draw attention to what was happening and many onlookers waiting for their loved ones to come off the ship were busy talking among themselves.

David Bauer, the commanding officer of the USS Oak Hill, said that Gaeta and Snell's kiss would largely be a non-event and the crew's reaction upon learning who was selected to have the first kiss was positive.

"It's going to happen and the crew's going to enjoy it. We're going to move on and it won't overshadow the great things that this crew has accomplished over the past three months," Bauer said.

The ship returned to Joint Expeditionary Base Little Creek-Fort Story following an 80-day deployment to Central America. The crew of more than 300 participated in exercises involving the militaries of Honduras, Guatemala Colombia and Panama as part of Amphibious-Southern Partnership Station 2012.

Both women are Navy fire controlmen, who maintain and operate weapons systems on ships. They met at training school where they were roommates and have been dating for two years, which they said was difficult under "don't ask, don't tell."

"We did have to hide it a lot in the beginning," Snell said. "A lot of people were not always supportive of it in the beginning, but we can finally be honest about who we are in our relationship, so I'm happy."

Navy officials said it was the first time on record that a same-sex couple was chosen to kiss first upon a ship's return. Sailors and their loved ones bought $1 raffle tickets for the opportunity.

Gaeta said she bought $50 of tickets, a figure that she said pales in comparison to amounts that some other sailors and their loved ones had bought. The money was used to host a Christmas party for the children of sailors.

Snell said she believes their experience won't be the last one for gays and lesbians in the military.

"I think that it's something that is going to open a lot of doors, for not just our relationship, but all the other gay and lesbian relationships that are in the military now," she said.

Snell is based on the USS Bainbridge, the guided missile destroyer that helped rescue cargo captain Richard Phillips from Somali pirates in 2009.

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6 comments:

Purple said...

Aww. Nainggit naman ako. happy for those who can be open about their relationship. =)

Anonymous said...

Thanks for posting! Ang saya!!! - lucidmoments

Anonymous said...

WoooHHHOoooo!!!

A small victory for LGBT..

Thank you firewomyn, I really like your blog...

Anonymous said...

Yay! At least some places are making progress. :"> This reaallly warms my heart. It wouldn't be bad to see something like that happen in the Philippines... Though the chances of that happening are right about as high as PNoy growing a spine. - gangrenes

Anonymous said...

haaayy,,, sana magawa din nmin ito ng gf ko one day ;) sabay post sa facebook wall... waaahhaahaha maloloka cguro lahat ng friends/families nmin hahaha!

we're both inside the closet parin, only few very close friends knew lang. but we're turning 6 yrs this 2012.. and proudly survived 3 years living together (secretly) yehey!

am loving ur blog fire! keep it up!

-tzikai

firewomyn said...

@Purple - don't worry, tayo na ang next! :)

@lucidmoments - my pleasure :)

@Anonymous - thanks for liking this blog :) any nickname?

@gangrenes - sowee, i kinda like Pnoy as there isn't a better choice among the lot for now. but i have high hopes that we can make it happen soon! :)

@tzikai - huwaw! 6yrs! congratulations :) i haven't cohabited with anyone yet. but i do want to. kwento ka pa ha :)