Sahod

This is a fun, insightful repartee with a dearie friend. I thought of posting it because of her smart analogy of payday w/ love which coincides with today's payday. Yey! :) Background is, she fell for a girl who's already in a relationship (pero nagkakalabuan na daw).

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Df: How's the busog sa pagmamahal?

Fw:  Eto, malnourish sa pera. Hehe. Kaw? Inlababo pa rin sa kanya?

Df:  Ok lng. Ang pera ay dumadating. Tuwing akinse at katapusan. Sana ganun din ang love. Haha. Oo inlab. Ala nang sabit. Dating exclusively.

Fw:  Nice. Sya pa rin ba yan? Sans her sabit?

Df:  Yep. Same girl.

Fw:  Naks! Ikaw ang nagwagi. Congrats! Pag may tyaga, may jowa. Hehe.

Df:  Haha. Nah. They're not working out na talaga before i came into the picture. Am technically still single though.

Fw:  Emotionally, physically & sexually attached but technically single. Right. :)

Df:  Yeah. How convenient is that? Haha.

Fw:   Grabe, the dichotomy of singlehood. Enjoy! So bakit hindi mo pa sya sinasagot?

Df:  I haven't asked her pa. Am not ready yet. Or maybe am scared.

Fw: For real?

Df: Yeah. Funny or absurd?

Fw:  Interesting. Makes sense actually. She just got off from a relationship, you just got off from being a 3rd party. So I think ok to chill for now.

Df: Yeah. I thought so too. But i get restless from time to time. You know, human nature. I get too love drunk at times that i just wana ask her to make it official. Haha.

Fw: Give it time. Ganyan din ako ka-kati noon. 2wks pa lang kakabreak, new gf agad. Build & strengthen the foundation. *naks! Hanep sa payo. Hehe*

Df: Oo nga. Baka nga iba na yung dynamics kasi single na talaga sya now. We've been goin out exclusively for months now.

Fw:  Basta payong kapatid na tomboy, don't rush. Savor that stage. If you feel the need to call her your gf, use a different term (like sweet, etc) so that it's still not official. Mahirap masaktan & maginvest ng emotion. Kaya, magpakasiguro ka na. :)

Df: Haha. Salamat sa payong kaibigang  tomboy. Oo nga ate. Lol. Well andun na kami sa stage na may term of endearment na kami for each other.

Fw: Kung madali ka naman  makarecover sa pain, then go & commit. Iba iba rin naman tomboy. Assess mo ano talaga gusto mo sa relationship and sa partner para you can determine if you're ready. *yikes! Ang seryoso ko! :D*

Df: And am not getting any younger. Am kinda tired flirting and sleeping around. *is this a good problem or what?! Hehe*

Fw:  Ano ba ang makukuha mo sa committed relationship na hindi mo nakukuha sa setup nyo now? Tired maybe, but you're still young. If you're ready then take the plunge :)

Df: Demands and expectations. The us and the we. Haha!

Fw:  Hehe. Asus! Kaya mo yan! :)

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It's not that I don't like the girl, it's just that I think dearie friend deserves someone better, hotter, less messy setup. Ok, I admit, I don't like the girl. Hehe. What I hope for my dearie friend is to commit because her whole being wants it, not just because she's feeling territorial or antsy. I know this is a contradiction from someone who's been blindly impulsive. I guess I just want my dearie friend to have it better than mine. :) Because i've  approached my sexuality blitzkrieg style, I had a lot of "oops" & bummer experiences that I hope she can  leapfrog them. Good luck to her leapfrogging though, because I'm taller than her (ergo I have longer limbs). Hehe. *peace dearie friend!* But she has fuller breasts though. I've been openly envious of her abt it. Hehe.

Anyhoo, dearie friend is very smart and just needs a smarter friend (that's me! Lol!) to put some sense to her sometimes. I recant, love, sex, relationship are not about being cerebral, so all that smarter friend can do is to provide other perspective. *i won't recant saying am the smarter friend. Hehe* I sorely miss talking to  dearie friend. =)  

Note: we have a funny prequel to this conversation. Will post it soon.